Ok so there are alot of guys who mingles and tries to impress,flirt,go out etc. me.but all of them just doesn't "click" and not that I think that I'm too special or stuff for them(cuz thats kind of stupid when guys says that) but somehow I'm just trying to wait for that chemistry.Is it wrong for me to do this?...you know wait and not struggle myself?
2007-12-21 10:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by KC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, this is not wrong. people date whoever they feel like dating, and you are just a little more picky then the average person which is okay, im picky too
2007-12-21 10:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by H S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you are being a bit to selective. What is the harm with just trying to go on a date with one of these guys. Men do things like that cause they don't know what else to do. Maybe after a date you might feel a bit more chemistry and if not then you did yourself no harm, just found out for sure. Life is not like the movies love and chemistry can take time and each person you pass up might be a great person after you get to know them more. I am just saying if the seem nice and not nuts just go on a date and try not to judge by first impressions cause all of us guys are jackasses
2007-12-21 18:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by bzssr6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very smart to wait and not push yourself to be with someone because others seems to be with somebody. You are doing it right. You are paying attention to your soul and intuition that is telling you to treat love and relationships as a special and rare opportunity to have a great person in your life. Wait until you feel it, but give others a chance to get near you. If you don't feel it, let them go.
2007-12-21 18:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by roatanbruce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't worry. Your doing what anyone else would do, mingling and trying to find someone that is right for you. As long as you aren't doing anything crazy to lead these guys on then you have no problem. Take care and hope you find the right guy for you.
2007-12-21 18:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by *lalalala* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's definitely not wrong for you to wait-you should have chemistry with someone you're dating. Don't let things that the guys you decline say get to you-not every guy takes rejection easily, some may retaliate and say mean things to hurt your feelings-you definitely don't want to date these kinds of guys.
2007-12-21 18:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jaxi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No no no. Playing hard-to-get is when you lead a guy on. You both like each other, but you make him jump through hoops and chase you around instead of just going out with him. It makes no sense at all. Some women think that it tests his loyalty or whatever, but really it just makes him think you don't want to be with him.
2007-12-21 18:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by highball116 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are being smart! Be yourself and wait for the chemistry don't just date anyone for the sake of dating
Just have fun the right one will come along when you least expect it
2007-12-21 18:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are answering the phone calls and talking to him you are not playing hard to get. Usually in most cases the attraction part comes way later.
2007-12-21 18:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Old School 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Its totally fine to feel that way. Just you wait for the"Click" mabe it will happen soon but you have to be patient.
2007-12-21 18:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Laurel S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you are not playing hard to get --- to me that is when you like someone but choose to allow them to think that if they keep trying maybe you will sucumb to their charm --- here you are just not interested and are looking for someone special and not prepared to take second best --- go for it --- best wishes
2007-12-21 18:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋