He ended up telling me this when i thought he was gonna ask me out "Hey, later i have to tell you about this girl i met, shes amazing!" and went to class. It was so sad, i cried in the bathroom and was late for class, i like him so much. And then in the hall he asked her out, now there verry seriouse after a month, i always catch them kissing, it is so hard for me to see.
What should i do???????? i dont know, i am so sad. and i really really liked this guy! I known him sence preschool and now were in 10th grade! And......i always sort of thought he liked me......i guess i was wronge, but what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-21 08:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow.
This reminds me of Taylor Swifts' "Teardrops on my Guitar".
Anyway, what you need to do is after you have emotionally drained yourself from crying so much, make yourself feel better by reinventing yourself.
Forget all the emotional attachment you felt towards him. Forget it ever existed. Do a new hairstyle, get some clothes, and dab on some irresistible perfume. Just act like nothing happened.
Then, get out! Go out for a GNO with your girls. Go to a club or a movie. Somewhere with a lot of hottttt bachelors. Look untouchable but don't be untouchable.
If some guy (who is among your interest) sparks up a convo with you, join in. Don't hold back thinking about your friend because there was never a you and him.
Realize that he found someone and be happy for him because he will return it when you find someone. Don't be a third wheel all mopey and stuff. Make a double date (with his girl and your guy and you and your friend) to show your support.
The sooner your realize there was never anything more than best friends between you and him, the better.
Just, don't feel the need to only get a boyfriend to make your friend jealous.
It never works out that way.
Just... play it up. Welcome his new found love and stay content with your friendship.
2007-12-21 09:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... that's sad! I'm very sorry about that. Put all the advice I have for you is to pull yourself together and get through! You can do it girl!!! It WILL be hard but girls can do anything guys can do, remember that. Anyways, you should tell him you feel after a while ( when you think it is right) and maybe it will all work out. It's a small world, you never know. You go girl, just try! Best of Luck;)
2007-12-21 09:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by someonespecial;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... you waited too long...now he has a girl.
But who knows may be in the future you both can have a chance, but for now move on, there is nothing you can do if he loves another girl (it's not nice to be selfish and mess with a couple that are going out and are happy).
2007-12-21 09:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gives you a big hug. I know what you are going thru. Its not easy. Does he know you like him?? This is what I say to myself. We are meant to be together but the timing is wrong. In the meantime, he has to date other women in order to realize that you are the one for him. He may like you but too afraid to ruin the friendship. Depending on your age, relationships hardly ever last. I would date other guys and continue with your life and be friends with this guy. He'll see you with other guys and hey that might trigger him to say "hmmmm.....I should ask her out".
2007-12-21 09:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by dharrasunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you can't get him to like you if that's what you're trying to do. The only real thing you can do is try to forget about it. If you keep thinking about him, it's only going to make you feel worse. Go out with girlfriends and have some fun with them. Who knows? You might find a new crush! :)
Good luck, and hope you feel better.
2007-12-21 09:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by trivkc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he prolly felt the same way for you. He prolly had feelings but he didnt want to mess up the friendship that ya both had. I bet if he knew you liked him ya could have became more than friends. Maybe you just need to talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2007-12-21 09:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want him to know his feelings for you, take him aside one day and tell him your feelings. i think that'd help the process of moving on if you at least tell him. after that, then focus your attention on school and friends for a while. maybe some other guy will catch your eye.
2007-12-21 09:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely go with which you relatively value greater... lose one relationship to benefit yet another... or stay top the place u are... then in case you be certain its greater substantial to benefit a relationship... ask the female out... if she declines ur furnish... then purely keep shifting by way of.... apparently such as you would be in a relationship lots speedier than your pal... so decide for it!!
2016-11-04 05:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really your best friend....you should be happy for him. Or maybe it won't work out between them two and you get a second chance with him.
2007-12-21 09:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem.its not easy to get over someone.ithink you should tell him how you feel and slowly try to get over him.also talk to ur friends about they can always help you.
2007-12-21 09:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋