If you have the opportunity to go to college...doing so would be in your best interest..and if you do decide to go, don't make the mistake of spending a few years and lots of money on learning something that you really are not interested in and probably won't end up using. I know people that have gone to college, graduated, and then decided to do something completely different with their lives and became very successful. It all depends on you. If you are not sure what you want to do..and I don't think you are..I wouldn't rush into college right away...wait until you know what it is that you want to do with your life and then if you need college, then go. If you choose this path, then you will want to go to college to be able to be as educated and successful as you possibly can and it might change your mind about not wanting to go. If your circumstances are that you can't go to college, there are plenty of technical schools out there that can teach you a trade..but again, do something that you know you will use. I'm not against college at all, I just know so many people that did not go and are successful..very much so for some. One example...I dated this guy that graduated high school and didn't really know what he wanted to do with his life..he worked some minimum wage jobs off and on for years..during this time he struggled financially though..but he decided to get into real estate..he saved his money, invested some, started buying small properties and is now a real estate broker, an auctioneer, and a property developer..has his own real estate company and is a multi-millionaire. I know this because I used to date him. One thing that I never understood though is that he had a hard time reading very well, he can't spell worth a dime..but I guess with his money he can hire other people to do things for him. He serves on several boards as a member and a director of one. I think it's more about finding what suits you..he didn't discover what he wanted to do until he was in his 30's but he was very determined, worked very hard and now his family is financially secure for the rest of their lives. That's just one example and it doesn't happen that way for everyone but I do believe that if someone takes something that they are good at and gives 100% and never gives up they can be successful at what they do. Some people just have that drive inside them..some don't. Someone above mentioned trade schools I think and that's not a bad idea either. Just be true to yourself..find your dreams and don't rush it. You don't have to go to college by a certain age anymore and I think it's great that more people are going at different ages now. Do you know some people that are very successful in the ways that you want to be..even if they do something that you are not interested in doing...talk to these people..they have the true answers and can give you some ideas and tips. They have been there and someone that can tell you from experience is the best teacher of all. Try to spend some time with these people and ask questions and look for qualities they have and find out what it took for them to be successful. And most importantly, as long as you do what makes you happy at the end of the day and it's what you want...you don't have to make a certain amount of money to be considered successful..you are the one that knows if you are successful or not. As long as you are happy, love what you do and you don't have to do without basic necessities, then this might be enough for you. Some people don't have to feel "rich" to be successful..it's all about you and what you want out of life..and you probably will have to work some jobs that you really don't like to reach your goals and dreams whether you go to college or not. You have to start small and work your way up. Good luck to you and it sounds like you have lots of questions about your future and there's nothing wrong with that...it;s good that you are thinking about it..that shows that you are intelligent..and if you want something bad enough, go for it..you can do anything you want. There will be obstacles no matter what, but don't look at them as obstacles..look at them as challenges and learning experiences..they are what builds character. The people that have become immedietely successful with no in-between usually miss out on this part and don't seem to have alot of character..and all the obstacles that they didn't have to overcome..well, when they are faced with challenges now..they don't have a clue what to do..just look at the media, you'll see many people that made tons of money quick and didn't appreciate it because they didn't have to really work through problems and alot of them just don't seem to have much substance about them.
So sorry for another long answer, I just wish you the best of luck in whatever you do. I hope you can learn to relax and be patient..it will come together..in the meantime, just do the best you can do at whatever it is..if you have to work at McDonald's for a while, what's wrong with that? Everybody has to start somewhere..not too many people are born with a silver spoon in their mouth..and when you work hard and know that you have done your very best and tried your hardest..then you will appreciate life and all it has to offer more. Good luck to you!
p.s. I have a son that's 22 and he struggled through high school and barely graduated but he did, and he's gone through plenty of "not so desirable" jobs, but several months ago, he started working as an electrician's helper and knew nothing about this trade, but he really likes it and is learning alot. His boss started him out at 10 dollars an hour which is decent for the area where we live and he just got a dollar raise not long ago. His boss wants him to work as an apprentice and in a couple of years take a test to become an electrician..the pay for electricians in this are ranges anywhere from 25 to 40 dollars an hour. Not a glamorous job, he won't get rich doing it, but he will be comfortable and he's doing something that he likes.
2007-12-22 23:51:22
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answered by Lucy*JakeFanClubFounder* 4
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There are many "blue collar" jobs out there that pay much more than "white collar" jobs that require a college degree. However, if you want to be something like an engineer, mathematician, or work inside; a college degree is a requirement. Look into becoming a Plumber, Electrician, Carpenter, Mason (bricklayer), Automotive mechanic. These don't require college but do require training and an apprentice program. Check with the local unions for apprentice programs (although I am rabidly non-union they can get the training and certification done).
2007-12-21 08:58:05
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answered by Wiz 7
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if you spent any time in shop class unions pay VERY WELL and give you benefits. you can also do this anywhere. lot of guys are doing this instead of going to college,.
as long as you have your diploma security guard is an option
if you have the brains and stomach and can lift people safely there's emt.
you can join the police academy and become a cop. a degree is a plus but not a requirement. you need to be fit, honest and be able to think on your feet.
lot of girls work their way through college as strippers and escorts. place do hire male escorts so if your good looking enough try that.
you dont HAVE to go to college but if you want the best out of life and your not a pro athelete college is your best bet. theres nothing wrong working a year or two, saving the money and figuring out what you want to do.
2007-12-21 08:49:07
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answered by Anonymous
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I firmly believe that kids and parents have been sold a bill of goods on a college education. If you plan on doing something incredibly complex that requires complex training, then college is a great idea.
If you just want a good paying job, the best way is to work your way up from the ground.
I see no wisdom in $40,000 to $100,000 in student loans to get a job working the reception desk at some company or a sales job. Skip the loans and find a good company that promotes based on effort, reliability, and loyalty.
2007-12-21 08:49:27
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answered by united9198 7
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Life is hard now . you will not be able to have a decent job that pays your expenses if you don't go college . this is a fact but the other fact is that there are people who are fed up with education . they just don't want to study and on the other hand what kind of jobs they can have throughout their lives ? . it is a strange grim future waiting for a lot of people . i wish governments try to help in this.
2007-12-21 09:00:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Almost any job will be open to you [except the professions such as Dr's and lawyers] but they may be harder to come by. I never went to college, but I'm still an engineer now. I just had to work my way up. Unless you have something else in mind, I WOULD recommend college, but it doesn't guarantee success any more than not going would guarantee failure. Hope this helps.
2007-12-21 08:48:44
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't be a social worker without going to college.. but honestly, when the Post Office opens up enrollment, fill out the application, they only do it every couple of years, but working for the government you retire early, GREAT benefits, GREAT retirement, and you can still make like $65k a year if you make a career out of it.
2007-12-21 08:48:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Welders make a ton of money. Especially underwater welders. You have to get a certification (or a couple if you are underwater), but it's not like normal college. If you get a job working oil rigs, they will sometimes give you lodging, meals, and everything you need. All your money is take home. My friend did it in Canada and made 12,000 dollars (all pocket money) in a couple months.
2007-12-21 08:50:04
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answered by Master C 6
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Regardless of the cost and time, go to college. Get a business, teaching or sociological degree. Otherwise, you'll end up not making enough to get by.
2007-12-21 08:51:08
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answered by CrG 6
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i overheard someone saying one of his friends became a golf caddy and made 56,000 in 3 months b/c he worked at a country club. besides that i don't think it's possible to get a good job if you don't go to college.
2007-12-21 08:48:08
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answered by nahnuh 2
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