Hii
So theres a guy i know and his like one of my best friends and a couple of days ago he told me he really likes me
But i dont like him that way
And he knows i dont like him that way 'cause before he told me he liked me i told him i liked somebody
Anyway he has a girlfriend and he always tells me he likes her more but i just get the feeling he really likes me as his liked me before and he said he really really liked me then
I know i sound really vein but im not lol
And his always saying if he didnt have a girlfriend he'd go out with me but i dont really want to go out with him anyway even if he didnt have a girlfriend
I just feel kinda akward around his girlfriend and kinda feel bad for her as shes one of my friends too
what should i do ??
xx
2007-12-21 08:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw people i really dnt like him , its only a problem cause his like one of my best friends .
2007-12-21 08:49:32 · update #1
Just do him already
2007-12-21 08:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What??? What is your question??? How old are you 10???
As stated in your post the facts are:
1. You are not interested in him in a relationship/romantic way?
2. His is interested in you in a relationship/romantic way?
3. He has a girlfriend?
4. If I did not have a girlfriend...he would go out with you.
What???
1. You should stop being this guys friend, as he is only trying to mess with your mind...see "what" he can get out of you. Or you should tell him under no uncertain terms that you now, always and will forever see him as just a friend.
2. If you and the girlfriend are friends then you should tell her about the advances (it would be better if you could also provide proof as no one wants to believe the guy is would cheat on them). However if you are not friends it does not matter.
Good luck this sounds so middle school...and if in fact you are in middle school...no worries the Christmas break is here and when you return to school in the new year he will be putting that bug "if I didn't have a girlfriend" in someone else's ear.
2007-12-21 08:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by SuziiQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the wishful thinking that he will replace his current girlfriend with you. You already told him you didn't want to go out with him (although it sounds like you didn't really mean it), so don't do anything.
2007-12-21 08:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is not right to cheat on people. And then tell him that you would rather just be friends. Then start talking about the Guy that you like. He should get the picture that you do not want to go out with him so he will way off. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-21 08:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by smiley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ... from what u wrote u seem little bit hesitated but if u know that u don't wanna be with him then the best thing u could do is to be honest with him and tell him that clearly and stop thinking.... that's the best thing u can do right now to make things clearly in my opinion ...
2007-12-21 08:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to realize that you probably like him too otherwise it wouldn't be a problem for you and you wouldn't be asking for advice as to what you should do. you would go about your normal life and let them be and try to ignore his comments about him saying he "likes" you.
2007-12-21 08:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by nikirollerblades 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PROMOTE FOR YOUR LIFE. make your friend and his girlfriend love eachother as much as possible and push him to keep going out with her as if you were his guy friend.
2007-12-21 08:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends with everyone date none in this situation
2007-12-21 08:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by datsleather 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a long *** post. I didn't even bother to read it so I can't give you any advice.
2007-12-21 08:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋