okay so this boy really really likes me. [a lot] and he asked me out today and i said yes. but like i dont know if i truly like him and i want to just be friends and have the old times back. but now its sorta awkward and i hate when gossip gets around about people going out. ughhh. do you have any suggestions to help me!
thank you soooooo much!
<3
2007-12-21 08:19:07 · 17 answers · asked by Ellen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to your 6th grade teacher about it.
2007-12-21 08:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hall + Oates 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I have this problem all the time..I get asked out and at the time I am thinking this is amazing I always say yes...then within days I see they were better as friends and I have a hard time telling them because they dont understand most of the time....just sit him down..on the phone, computer, or even in person(which is the best) talk to them and tell them you dont want to hurt them and you want to continue being friends but you feel better being friends instead of dating because you dont feel that way toward them but you love them as a friend because they are there when you need them...
2007-12-21 16:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by ThatGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, Ive been in a similar situation myself. Your best to just break off with this guy. It's kinder to let sum one down than to pretend you like them. Just ignore the gossip, if you break up with him you'll have done the right thing and even if he doesn't see that straight away he will in the end.
Good Luck! XX
2007-12-21 16:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by BeeBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well did he mean like go out on a date or go out like bf/gf???
if he meant go out on a date then go and have fun and maybe tell him you are only ready for a friendship kind of relationship right noww. If you meant gf/bf thing going on then maybe you need to confront him about how you feel. The best thing to do is have fun as friends and talk to eachother.
2007-12-21 16:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you guys should just be friends for right now, and if you can be yourself around him, and you start to like him, then you guys can try again. It's not fair for either of you two if you don't truly like him, you know?
2007-12-21 16:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignor the people ask your self over and over do i like him and if you get butterflys in your stomic or if you start blushing then you like him but if you want to stay friends then just simply take him in a room where both of you are alone then say i rely dont know if i like you anough to be you girl friend and so i just want to stay friends like the old times
2007-12-21 16:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell him you fell weird dating and you think you guys are better off as friends and if he gets mad because you don't fell its right that that's his bad not yours. If you want you can tell him it feels weird and you like being friends because you don't want to ruin your friendship because you were dating and if that don't work tell him he feels to much like a brother to date that always works good luck
2007-12-21 16:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to tak to him and ay that u only want to be friends becuase you get laong better that way.
some ppl are onlii eveer meant to be friends!
2007-12-21 16:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sashaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is really hard to do, but you should tell him that you really want to just be friends again. It will make everything better, you'll see!!
2007-12-21 16:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mairachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um wel i had a frend with the same issue
i would just say u want to be frends for now
get back with him ltr if u would like to
2007-12-21 16:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just tell him how you feel; he'll be upset because you said yes and want to turn back, but he won't be as upset as he would be if you told him later after he's gotten deeper into it.
2007-12-21 16:22:42 · answer #11 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋