I already know that this girl is going to go out with me. We will go out for coffee and some sort of bread snack from Starbucks...just relax and talk and get to know one another. Afterwards, I will take her back to her dorm. I won't go inside, because I don't like her for sex. I don't plan on kissing her goodnight. However, what are some signs that she will want me to kiss her goodnight? And if she does give me a sign that she wants to be kissed...I'm going to kiss her on her forehead instead, and tell her that she looked beautiful tonight, and tell her "I'll call you soon, have a good night, pretty girl." ...Is this good? Ladies, what do you think? If you were the girl, what would you be thinking if I did that to you?
2007-12-21 07:42:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,you sound like a real gentleman, which is a rare thing now.I wouldn't keep rehearsing this though.let what happens just happen naturally.I think the kiss on the forehead might have her thinking you don't want to kiss her.She will probably lick/bite her lip or be staring at your lips.You could give her a kiss on the cheek and she may just turn her head and start kissing you on the lips first!I think what you plan on saying is sweet but my mom calls me "pretty girl," maybe say ,"Btw, you look so beautiful tonight,I will be thinking of you and calling you tomorrow."Of course,like I said it will just happen naturally when you are in the moment,so don't stress yourself out:)Good luck to yo!
2007-12-21 12:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok leave out the part "pretty girl" sorry it's the wrong wording and may freak her out. Instead, say "I'll call you later, have a good night" look into her eyes and they should talk (not really) that will tell you if she wants you to kiss her. Also if she fiddles with her house keys, hair, or clothing item (like her sleeves, etc.) Maybe a kiss on the check for the night, or on the forehead if you like that better. If she wanted to kiss you, she'll watch you go to your car, so turn around, if she didn't want to kiss you she'll be on her way inside. Just turn around half way down the sidewalk to see if she got in and if she is looking at you.
2007-12-21 07:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like this girl. Don't put that kind of pressure on yourself though! You don't have to kiss the girl tonight. You will sure know when the right time is because she will be throwing all the signs at you - trust me! My boyfriend and I didn't kiss until the 5th date, and it was the sweetest kiss I've ever had. Glad we waited until the right moment!
2007-12-21 07:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like everything except for the pretty girl thing... that sound pedophile-ish no matter what age you are... and the forehead thing depends on who she is- she could adore it or think it's a bit weird. If you want serious chivalry, go for a kiss on the hand, with a slight kneel. Every girl wants a prince.
2007-12-21 07:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you should just kiss her on her cheek. When saying goodnight do this. "Alright it's getting late..I had a good time, take care. I'll give you call maybe we could do this again soon". Lean in and kiss her cheek. That is a good farewell.
2007-12-21 07:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Samia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that that whole thing is really sweet. When a girl wants to kiss you, then she will wait by the door, and not just walk in, she will keep on going with conversation until you do kiss her. And I think that it's really sweet that your that kind of guy
2007-12-21 07:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, see how long she lingers at the end of the date. If you walked me to my door and I didn't want to kiss you, I'd get my door open quickly and get out of there. But when I linger and keep chatting with nothing really to say, I want to be kissed.
It's cute you are planning this out so much! Don't forget to have fun too!
xoxo
2007-12-21 07:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she wants a kiss she'll bite her lips or something... she'll stay like waiting for something else
yeah that's very cute, a kiss in the forehead means a lot and is cute
good luck :)
2007-12-21 07:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by qtpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
signs: if she makes serious eye contact
or if she looks at u think ur lips
If u did that i would be disapointed. I would think u weren't ready for a relationship and would think u didnt like me that much and it was ok to date other people.... its one of those things u go back to your bff with and they say that u r a complete cocky ***.... so if she wants a kiss, kiss her.
2007-12-21 07:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
-if she plays with her keys she wants to be kissed
-if she doesnt she'll just do inside
-she'll look at you
-licks her lips
-smiles
-is silent
-blushes
read her body language.
dont say what you were planning to say. its kinda weird. the "I'll call you tonight part" is ok though. the pretty girl part is kind of weird. i'd be like "um.. why are you calling me 'pretty girl'? who says that?"
lol.
neway good luck
2007-12-21 07:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by pockybunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋