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I'm 15. i just lost my virginity to my boyfriend. it was both our first times. We used a condom and it didnt break or anything. we took it off and put back on once. But hes afraid that maybe he put it on backwards. is it true when a condom touches air sperm is gone? well we did it and i have'nt got my period yet. im really scared. does having sex postpone your period? please help. me and my boyfriend are really nervous

2007-12-21 07:29:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

Sex can't postpone your period nervous can. You are probably freaking out over nothing. But if you are really worried then go take a pregnancy test. their like $10 at the store.
Good Luck and be more careful next time!

2007-12-21 07:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Crispo Cremeos 2 · 0 0

I really think you should take a pregnancy test! First of all, you should never use a condom twice, because then the posibility of the protection protecting you might not protect you anymore. you have put yourself in a dangerous situation by doing this, so please honey, do a test and be sure. At least than you know for sure and then you can plan from there onward what to do. Sex doesn't postpone your perion, but fertilisation does. Not having a period is one of the most obvios signs of pregnancy so check it out. however, if you are not pregnant there could also be other reasons why you're not getting your period ,for example extensive weight loss could cause this. I hope you and your bf are able to work this out together if you are pregnant and I wish you all the best. good luck!

2007-12-21 07:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 0 0

Sperm does not disappear from a condom. It can survive for about 3 days in a warm atmosphere. If you put it on when it was already used, you will still have some on there. You should NEVER use a condom twice, even if you turn it inside out.

Go and get a pregnancy test. If your period is late, I wouldn't say it was a coincidence. Having sex does not change your period cycle. Hormones can, health and stress levels too. But if you are having safe sex, your period should be unchanged. It sounds as if you are pregnant.

2007-12-21 07:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sweetie, the first thing you should do is go to the doctor and take a pregnancy test. Sex does not postpone your period unless you're pregnant, although sometimes stress can cause you to have your period late or not at all, especially when you're a teenager. How long has it been since your missed period? It's very important when you use a condom that if it comes off, you put on a new one. Never put the old condom back on after it comes off because you can put it on backwards, or even if you put it on the right way, it's easy for pre-ejaculate to leak. Sperm does not die when it contacts air, so it's very possible to get pregnant by re-using a condom. You might also want to think about getting on birth control of some sort. That way, even if the condom breaks or slips, you'll still be covered.

2016-05-25 08:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Well when you take a condom and you put it an its best to not take it off until you both are done with sex and everything. Since your bf put the condom back an, I don't think you have to worry about anything, unless the sperm came into you while you guys were having sex. You can either take a pregnancy test, or just wait and see if your period comes.

2007-12-21 07:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 3 · 0 1

Well with the circumstances , you shouldn't worry about the condom okay. Sperm can only live a little while in an oxegenated environment. Sit back relax, your period will come. I hope that you and your boyfriend are happy together. But some advice, don't use a condom twice, it can be dangerous, becuase it could break and you may not notice, and if you are not ready to have a baby, then maybe you should rethink sex. Not saying that you should stop, just know all of the consiquences

2007-12-21 07:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0 3

This is exactly why ADULTS tell you to wait until your married to have sex. Think about it, you guys don't even know how to use a condom. What happens if you are pregnant. If you can't even use a condom correctly how would you be able to take care of a child. I don't want to sound harsh but I wish young people would realize the risk involved everytime you have sex. It can affect the rest of your life. I do however commend you on trying to be safe.

2007-12-21 07:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by alianndees 2 · 1 0

You should be fine. You should also know that condoms are not 100% guaranteed anyways. You should NEVER EVER use a condom twice, that's for sure. That is not safe and so GROSS. You are more than likely fine, though. Sometimes if you stress about the situation, it does make you late. Stop stressing and I'm sure it will come. If you are more than a week late though, you should take a home pregnancy test. Good luck!

2007-12-21 07:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

No, it isn't true that when sperm touches air it is gone. It starts to die, but it's not an instant thing. Also, STD's are carried in the semen, and that doesn't die easily.

Get checked out by a doctor and never, ever re-use a condom.

2007-12-21 07:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

honey, didn't you learn anything from britney's lil sis? and NEVER NEVER use a condom more than once! it's not like a sock, you can't turn it inside out and use it again!!! didn't you think that there was sperm on the outside the second time you did it? you should definately not be reproducing!!!

2007-12-21 07:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by creative.thinker 2 · 0 0

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