Hey! ive been with my girlfriend for six months. We were good friends for about a year prior to this. Over the last two months or so weve had a lot more fights then usual. She seems to enjoy trying to annoy me and getting me angry. She rings me once or twice a day but the conversation seems always ends on a bad note. She has also cut down on sex A LOT! I stil like the girl and i dunno why these changes are happening and she still has the same personality other than these changes. What should i do?
2007-12-21 07:18:41 · 14 answers · asked by kokonutz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes testing u..shes seeing how much u really care for her, and seeing how far she can push u before u crack...tho this isnt the smartest thing for a girl to do..for some reason, sum of us do it. and the sex..she wants to see if ur not only in it for that...she cud feel like ur just using her for it. so don't try to have sex with her for a while, just show her how much u appreciate her and soon enough, she'll make the first move lol... and the constant calls...try calling her a lot for a while, she'll think u really care, she'll become a little annoyed and realize wut she did to u and soon enough she'll quit the major calls... hope this helps!
2007-12-21 07:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the EXACT same thing happen to me awhile back, and I think I figured out what happened.
Your girlfriend is either intentionally, or unintentionally sabotaging your relationship because she is not ready to go any further. She will continue to keep you at arms length for a lot of things, but then suddenly break down and apologize for everything. she's not a bad person, she's just not sure of what she wants. Don't pressure her, and you may even ask her if she wants to break up and maybe pick up things later on if possible. It's best not to burn bridges with her (like get into a big fight when you break up) - just let her know that you're concerned for her well being...... it worked for me, and even though that girl and i aren't together anymore, we're still great friends. Hope this helped.
2007-12-21 15:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by b0rnbad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People go through ups and downs in relationships. Honestly though she's a girl friend and not a wife. You can stick it out and avoid the arguments easy. Once you see the signs say "well I got to get going". Personally I would break it off with her and look for another girl and just keep her as your friend. Don't stick around becuse it's comfortable. It may be tough at first but if you leave instead of her leaving you it'll be easier to get over it.
2007-12-21 15:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shinigami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her about the ultimate issues not get bogged down into the little fights. Unfortunately a relationship is two people and if one wants to mess it up there is nothing the otherone can do. You can try to work things out but you can't make things work if the other party doesnt want it to, Be prepared for that, it may be the end but only dragged out for a long unhappy time.
2007-12-22 23:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably going thru some emotional issues with friends or something.
Sometimes girls react that way when they can't express whatever it is theyre going thru.
Just talk to her.
Don't tell her shes annoying you or anything, but ask if somethings wrong, and that she seems sad.
If she doesnt say anything, then just leave it at that.
Be there for her, and make yourself available if she ever needs to talk.
She might also want to break up with you..
2007-12-21 15:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by kelso mcfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. i kinda feel bad for you. Your gf seems really immature... unless something happened and u didn't include all the details? hmm... try to work it out but I dunno the only way you'll know what you're doing wrong is if you ask. I mean everyone has bad days but if she continues doing this than she'a playing you.. like a toy. You'll know what to do... it's like a feeling you'll get. Can't really explain but good luck!
2007-12-21 15:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Levitra.
Thanks for the 2 points.
2007-12-21 15:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Huge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She's banging someone else. If she's not into having sex with you anymore, it's because she's into someone else. Don't let her play you for a fool any longer, especially since she seems to be enjoying it. Keep your self esteem, and dump her asap!
2007-12-21 15:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by cnjard 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like things are going way downhill. Sit your gf down and talk to her about this. You shouldn't be unhappy like this, and she sounds pretty bitchy for annoying you and getting you made on purpose.
2007-12-21 15:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ewa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is unhappy with the relationship and is going to break up with you soon or is trying to get you to break up with her so she won't feel the guilt.
2007-12-21 15:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋