theres this guy i like a lotttttttttttt. everytime i'm at a dance or sweet sixteen, i say to myself "youre gonna dance with him tonight" buttt i never do.. it alwyas gets sooooo close, last time it looked like he was gonna come up & ask me but i got nervous and waked away, and we always end up practically next to eachother too. when he dances with like these 2 other girls that he talks to occasionally... he just goes up behind them and starts dancing.. why cant he do that with me, its not like i would be like ewwwwww get away form me.. thats the furthest thing form my mind!
there this little thing between us that i dont even know what it is, i think he know i like him, and he always looks at me but we neverrrrrr talk, were both shy ( but im not once i get to know the person).
next time i am determined that i will definate;y dance with him. any ideas on how i can give him some majorrr hints that i wanna dance?!?!?!
please & thank you
btw we're in highschool
2007-12-21 06:59:44 · 20 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he does this with them because he has a certain level of familiarity with them that makes him feel comfortable doing so without rejection...he doesnt want to take the chance on rejection from u or u guys feeling awkward, he is hoping u will see how much fun he can be (ex:demonstrating his moves and fun side in front of u by dancing with them) and inevitably ask him to dance...
2007-12-21 07:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by cdlfamilyof4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have walked away in the past as he is making his way toward your vacinity, that is why he prob doesn't treat you like the other girls....i think you have handled him well so far....he will only want to be with you more now that he thinks you are hard to get....my best suggestion is to make some serious eye contact at the next dance....he will get the hint
2007-12-21 15:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe coz you keep walking away he thinks you're either not interested or "unapproachable"
Just where you're questioning his actions, he's probably doing the same about you!
Take the bull by the horns and ask HIM to dance!
2007-12-21 15:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by vampwithaheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i understand your problem. look at him and smile everytime your eyes catch. that way, he knows your interested. then at the dance, try to get near him. but not SO obvious or else it wont look good. just try to drop hints that you want to dance and if he likes you, he will. good luck and have fun dancin with this dude ;]
2007-12-21 15:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by polkadot8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you more than them! Just scared to be rejected! Take the initiative! It's 2008 (almost) for crying out loud! Ask him to dance and go have fun!
2007-12-21 15:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have one of ur friends go up to him and tell him to dance with you...but be slick about it as if it wasnt planned...or u should have the guts to talk to him...whats the worst that could happen...in a couple of months even if u make an *** out of urself atleast u wont have regrets about not going up to him
2007-12-21 15:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by tragickingdom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's thinking, Dam girl your fine. But because he is shy, and your so fine he is afraid to start a conversation with you or a relationship because he will say something or do something that is stupid or you will think it's not you. It's or he may not be good enough for you.
2007-12-21 15:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by femslave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does he no your not going to freak when he comes to dance with you... your the one that walked aways last time... so ask him to dance next time dont be shy and you have nothing to lose anyways!! have fun and be brave!!!
2007-12-21 15:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by simply sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god. Nobody ever danced with me in high school. I have no idea what you should do, except maybe not worry too much if it doesn't happen!
2007-12-21 15:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Katy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not have the guts to ask you to dance, then you will need to make that move for him!
2007-12-21 15:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋