Alright I've noticed alot of girls on here... That are single for the most part can't decide whether or not a guy likes her, or if they should tell they guy they like her... I mean as a guy I think if a girl likes me she should show it so I can make a move.. or tell me so I can do something about it.
So my question is ... as a girl do you feel like it's a guys job to approach you or notice you... ? If you expect him to notice you what do you do to make him notice you?
Another thing too.. I saw alot of questions with girls and guys saying she/he didn't call me... should I call them... It sounds like some kinda game to me why not just treat them like you do your friends? Call em when ya wanna hang out or talk, miss the call and they didn't call ya back? Why not just call em back tomorrow?
2007-12-21 06:32:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its a two way thing...cause i cant wait forever for the guy i like to come up and talk to me..so then i go to him sometimes..but at times we do have to stay away at times to avoid looking desperate..its a girl thing..its not meant to be that simple
2007-12-21 06:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by sou chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it works both ways to be honest. I know I always liked a guy to show he was interested in me before I would say anything because hello, who likes rejection! Girls do just about anything to get a guy to notice her. New outfit, make up, nice hair, flirt with him, the list goes on and on. I think once its determined whether or not the liking feeling is mutual, calling each other is a good thing. I know I loved when guys called me however I wasn't aloud to call guys because my parents said it was wrong, they said if a guy likes you he will call you. And yes, sometimes just acting like your friends is even better than just jumping into a relationship, because that way you can really be relaxed around that person and just chill and if you feel the chemistry is great then go for it. Why mess up a good thing I always say, but some girls don't want to just settle for friendship, they want more. I don't know if this helped you out at all but this is my opinion on the topic.
2007-12-21 14:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Girls always prefer it if the Guys make a move first becoz they don't like the feeling of rejection i know boys don't either but it's kinda more harder 4 us girls.
I've noticed a lot of those questions too but i sometimes think their to be pittied in a way, does he like me? and how do i tell if he likes me? are the most popular questions asked.
To be honest i'm not one of those girls who drule over some guy and is desperate to know if he likes me or not- that's just stupid.
Treat your gf/bf like your friends is a valid point, it's easier aswel.
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2007-12-21 14:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always a guy thing to call a girl up.... but some girls gotta have patience, play it hard... just wait for like 3 days... because thats how long guys wanna wait til he calls u... thats the game they want to play... and if he doesnt call you mean hes not interest... and yes the truth is that its the guy responsibility to call a girl or to approach them...i notice because one i approach a guy, he thinks that i'm too much and that he was like i'm a firt and stuff so I stop... guys are the one with the responsibilities... u got the girl number... and u like her? better go for it before shes gone
2007-12-21 14:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tracee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have confidence then you dont need to ask that question, what you should ask is why am i asking the question?, i'm guessing you have been embarressed in the past.... if they really like you or vice versa, it doesnt matter what what order or how you go about saying it, body language is a big one tho, just be your self and if all that fails, acidently drop something or wear low cut. It never fails
2007-12-21 14:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Christine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same as with guys. Everybody is afraid of rejection, but we all want to feel that we have reason to think someone likes us. If you ask about it on here, you get peoples honest opinions, and not people who know you and are biased either.
2007-12-21 14:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by M E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that girls should do this and guys should do that s@!!!t, too many old fashioned stereotypes and rules out there, just do what feels right for you.
2007-12-21 14:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Blank Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy's job fo sho
2007-12-21 14:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound easy, but for some girls it's not that easy
2007-12-21 14:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by tc22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BRAVO!! WELL SAID.
2007-12-21 14:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋