My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of years. I have never cheated on him, but he has been accusing me of it off and on for about a year now.
I am to the point now where I feel like I might as well go ahead and do it if I am being accused. I know that is not a good attitude to have, but I am only human.
I have also heard that if someone is constantly accusing you of cheating, they are probably the one who is guilty.
What have you done in a situation like this?
2007-12-21 06:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and is there any hope for a relationship like this?
2007-12-21 06:33:44 · update #1
what is giving him the ideas that you are cheating? do you get text messages? phone calls? what is it. i had a g/f that accused me of cheating all the time. turns out she was cheating on me. maybe you should turn the table and try to dig into him. let him know how it feels. maybe then he will calm down.
2007-12-21 06:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by j p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurities are hard to deal with. sounds like your boyfriend has them. Once being accused I could deal with, the second time I'm gonna do it. Then tell that person I did and why. And you are part right, some people do get a guilty mind and start accusing you of what they want to do, or have already done. Sit this guy down for one last heart to heart and after that all bets are off.
2007-12-21 06:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was constantly accused of cheating. It did get to the point where I had enough. Just to satisfy the accuser, I cheated. I told my wife right after it happened. I told her I hope your happy now, you have nothing more to worry about! The marriage ended soon after....One of the best gifts I gave myself!!
2007-12-21 06:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it sounds like your gutt instinct is correct. He's probably the one who has cheated and to make himself feel better he's hoping to "catch you" so he won't be the only guilty one. Yes, there is hope...but the hope is that you'll break up with him (just tell him you want some space) and meet someone who loves and respects you and doesn't play those kinds of games. Do it soon, before you regret wasting so much of your life with him. Nip it. You'll be fine!
2007-12-21 06:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Beach Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Reed dude appears like a automobile salesman. No ask your self hes so indignant. Noone has ever accused me of course, somewhat at right here with my one Me because it quite is. And that entire Little Tsu element, oh properly, its the way the device is set. Doesnt men the guy could burn in hell for it.
2016-11-04 05:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always heard the same about being accused and yet they are the ones that are guilty...makes you wonder?
I leave...because they obviously are pushing you away for whatever their reason is...
Talk to him and let him no that this just simply can't persist...communication is key here...find out why he thinks that and watch him too, especially if you really suspect he could be the unfaithful one...
2007-12-21 06:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by confused<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when me and my ex frist broke up, he went and told EVERYONE that i had slept with one of our friends. even though HE was the one that had cheated on me all the time. so all of our friends completely dropped me and thought i was a whore.
so whatever, he's the loser with his loser friends. they all learned in the end what a complete liar he was.
as for your guy, he sounds like he has isses, and i've found that if they are calling you a cheater, its because they have already cheated and are worried you are going to catch them. leave, he's a jerk. you can do better.
2007-12-21 06:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably RIGHT, darlin'. In my experience, when a guy is accusing you of cheating, and you aren't - HE probably is. Happened to me. Go with your intuition. It's always right-on.
2007-12-21 06:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by La Sirene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he feels that you are cheating on him, he better break up with you...it's just a threat...but incase things ends up in here,try forgetting him, he doesn't give any damn about you...on da other hand, he will never accuse u a cheat!
2007-12-21 06:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. yes that usually it means they are the ones being unfaithful. if they have are....drop them now! you need to find out.
2007-12-21 06:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by hope I can help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋