I hate to sound conceited, but it's the truth.
I came here because I don't want it to sound like I'm bragging or anything..
So... I get asked out on a pretty regular basis (at least once a week).
I'm tierd of it.
I don't like it at all.
I am not a flirtacious girl, you might even call me shy.
I don't persue any of these guys in any affect and I have NO IDEA why they keep asking me out.
I can't seem to have a guy friend unless he has a gf and that is completely ridiculas.
I want to know how to make them stop without being mean.
2007-12-21 06:25:59 · 6 answers · asked by darling_chica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In response..
It is nice to know that I am not alone.. and I will definately take all of your advice.
and no, I actually don't like it at all, thanks.
2007-12-21 17:04:27 · update #1
In response..
It is nice to know that I am not alone.. and I will definately take all of your advice.
and no, I actually don't like it at all, thanks.
2007-12-21 17:04:28 · update #2
let them know ur intentions are not to be in a relationship. and for ur guy friends, make it to their knowledge that u only seek pure friendship from them. there is no one way to stop getting attention. ur beautiful, u cant change that. consider it a gift and a curse....trust me, im the same way!
2007-12-21 06:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by r&b diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much no woman can have a guy friend who doesn't hit on them, it isnt just you.
(not trying to sound mean)
You can't make people stop asking you out, just be grateful someone thinks your cute. Alot of girls want to be asked out and aren't. Be curtious and say u have a man( even if u don't)
2007-12-21 06:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell them, make sure that you aren't giving them mixed signs. Make sure they understand that you don't want a relationship, and you don't like the fact that they push you!
2007-12-21 06:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you might be liking it alittle more than you are saying.
you probably are a very goodlooking young girl and boys will be boys.
it happens.
tell them to back off if you really don't like it.
2007-12-21 06:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by hope I can help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat happens to me too...but i just have to deal wit it...so there's notin i can really tell you... other than get a boyfriend n let everybody know u have one n maybe they'll stop asking you!!!
Good Luck!
2007-12-21 06:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by cupcakes! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could say sorry boys i am a lezbeain, or say that youare pregnet, or just simplytell them hey i dont wanna be your girl friend i just wanna be friends andreally talk to them?
2007-12-21 06:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋