Hi.
I dated my hubbie for a year before we got married which was a year ago.(I'm with him 2 years in total) He was so enthusiastic at first, then after we got married and started to live together, his desire seemed to be decreased.
We used to have a sex once/twice a week after we started to live together, then once in 2 weeks, and now, we don't have a sex unless I ask him to have one. Even I ask him, he would decline 99 %. Last time we had a sex was a month ago. He said he doesn't have a desire itself. We have talked about it but when it comes to talking about sex, he gets really defensive and tell me that he has never given anyone hard time because he can't get a sex, or has any of his g/f in past ever given him a hard time because he doesn't have a sex with her.
I love him but I am exhausted by this frustration. I just want to dump my sex drive than dealing with him being defensive.
Is there any med that would drop one's sex drive? Thank you in advance!
2007-12-21 05:42:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
No, he's not gay....but yes, he is stressed out. I am sure he will be for next few years since he is going to go to a grad school besides his full time job.
I'm devastated when I think of patience I have to have for this coming few years or more to deal with him.
I want to be touched, kissed, hugged, and have a sex. I am not talking about having sex everyday, but once a month for a healthy 25 y,o, woman is too less.
2007-12-21 05:53:15 · update #1
I think youre going about this backwards. You should get him help for his low sex drive. Youre normal, he's not. Maybe he's deppressed. He could also be stressed out. You need to sit down and talk to him about it. Also give him some incentive. Ask him what he would do if he could do anything he likes with you ;). See what happens....just keep trying.
2007-12-21 05:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say either he is cheating on you or has low testosterone. if it's the latter, have him take zinc and magnesium in the evening and a good multivitamin at night. also, accept that things slow down some over time, but do not accept less than once a week! also, buying some sexy clothes and getting adventurous in bed ( anal sex, different positions, ect) could spice things up.
2007-12-21 06:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by mr. buns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain antidepressants lower sex drive
2007-12-21 05:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes in a pink oval shaped bottle.
2007-12-21 05:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get medication that would INCREASE ones sex drive and give it to him?
2007-12-21 05:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about trying to get his sex drive up... try using aphrodisiacs there are many on the web try google it up
2007-12-21 05:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by teocatx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him if he was gay!
2007-12-21 05:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Hilarie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋