Im 18 years old and I broke up wtih my boyfriend that i was with for 2 years about a month ago. We technically broke up about a year ago, but we kept trying to make it work for the past year..but he wasnt the same person to me anymore, he really said and did hurtful things to me that effected and skewed the way i look at him a lot. I used to cry on command to songs that reminded me of him, but today when i was listening i had no reaction. Its like i barely even think about him anymore. Im just totally apathetic to the situation because I know its over and I know im better off because he was setting me up for a lifetime of misery. Is this normal? Should I be super upset or something? Or if someone damages your life so much, is it that easy to block out?
2007-12-21 05:40:47 · 3 answers · asked by Theresa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You technically broke up a year ago. You're moving on. You've reached the next step of the healing process. No need to be upset about it; it's perfectly normal.
2007-12-21 05:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible to be friends after a break up, but don't push up on her to be friends immediately afterwards. All relationships have the possibility to be emotional after a breakup. But it seems to me that you are only upset because she's upset over the fact that you were the one to break it off. I don't since any emotion from you of being distraught that you really cared for her and hated to do what was probably inevitable. Give her time to heal and I'm sure she will want your friendship back in hopes of reviving the relationship....good luck
2016-05-25 07:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. You're moving on. Good for you. :)
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2007-12-21 05:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋