,i have asked her not to she says she wanted it done ,her hair is now shorter then that what can i do
2007-12-21 03:05:40 · 20 answers · asked by suzywong 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
show her this page and make her read about how she makes you feel.
2007-12-21 08:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Explain This Nicely To Your Boyfriends Mum And Your Boyfriend If You Haven't Done Saying You Don't Like It As Its Your Child You Can Make The Rules Also This May Sound A Bit Stupid But Maybe Your Daughter Can Have Hair Extensions If Its Not To Short.
2007-12-21 11:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by lora. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean your daughter asks your b/f's mum for a haircut when she goes out with her - or do you mean your b/f's mum feels your daughter needs a haircut and just gets it done regardless? Either way, just tell your daughter in front of the b/f's mum that you do NOT want her to have a haircut. It might be a good idea to get your boyfriend on your side over this issue as it concerns his mum. Him telling his mother and your daughter that she can't have a haircut ought to do the trick. Whether or not she has her hair cut is not up to her (I presume she's a little girl and not a teenager) and your b/f's mum should follow your wishes, not your daughter's. Who is in charge in this matter.....YOU ARE.
2007-12-21 11:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by chris n 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who gets a hair cut? Your daughter or your boyfriend's mom?
If your daughter is being brought to get her hair cut, you can tell your boyfriend's mother to not have this done if you so choose.
You also do not have to allow her to take your daughter out alone without you. If she cannot respect your decisions on what you want for your daughter, she doesn't need to be alone with her until she does respect your wishes.
2007-12-21 11:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is so simple! Tell her no and if she does it again you will stop your daughter from seeing her without you being present. If she DOES DO it again - then don't let your daughter visit without your presence. Of course, if you are just using your bf mum as a "free" babysitter - then you shouldn't complain. You need to find a babysitter you PAY that isn't a family member.
2007-12-21 11:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dina K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have a sit down with your boyfriend and his mom and establish the fact that this is unacceptable. This is your child and you're her mom. This mom has no respect for you.Take a stand and let her know you will not accept this. She is not to make any decisions about "Your" daughter without first consulting you and getting your approval. If she can't accept this, then don't let her take your daughter out again.
2007-12-21 11:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by sandy t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is when the outings with her would stop. You need to tell her and again and ler her know that is she can't respect that you will not allow her to take your daughter out. And you need to have BF talk to her. His words may mean more to her, just the way some moms are, but he needs to support you too.
2007-12-21 11:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by taz19953369 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like bf's mum has stepped over her boundary. Let her know that the hair cut was not appreciated if your daughter doesn't like it. Also, remind the mum that she needs to confer with you first when making decisions about your daughter. Lay the law down, honey!
2007-12-21 11:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by anaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is your daughter and you must explain that you will decide when the time is right for your daughter to have her hair cut. Nip this in the bud now as it will not stop at the hair you will find her wanting your daughter to wear her choice of clothes.
I had the same problem with my late Mother-in-law and it caused my daughter so much stress trying to please her granny.
2007-12-21 11:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your bf mom have your daughter alone. Maybe she will get the point. BTW, remind her that girls usually have hair.
2007-12-21 11:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by bigred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple she is your daughter and your not even married.don't let her take her.and if your bf side with mommy then dump him.he needs to speak up and grow a pair.she sounds like a controlling in-law.run run for your life
2007-12-21 11:11:56 · answer #11 · answered by Mac 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋