ive always been a person who doesnt care about anything.....anything at all........never really been a happy boy, though I have no reason to get upset...I just am....Pain is the proff of ones existnce..and I hate the proof......I have nothing to look forward to in the day...........when I wake up, i feel disgusted with myself for doing so....then when i fall asleep, I pray that its the very last time I close my eyes...... My friends have always been reasons against me doing it....but I feel as though theyve been distancing themselves from me recently...I have nothing l;eft...........no reason for getting up anymore.... really I just want to see peoples opinions on the matter before hand....
2007-12-21 02:48:21 · 12 answers · asked by Ookamii_boy 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to call 911 or get yourself to a mental health professional immediately. It sounds like you have been depressed for a while. I am not sure, but perhaps it's you who have been distancing yourself from your friends?
Good luck,
Dana (Counseling M.S. )
2007-12-21 02:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dana A 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know if you go through with this, you'll never know the life you have. I've been depressed that way before, but its because I didn't have a job and had no money. I never wanted to get out of bed. At least you say you have friends, I'd stick close to them. Some people don't even have that....you're lucky in that way. You can do ANYTHING with your life as long as you put your mind to it. Imagine everyone you will leave behind and make sad if you go. You don't want that. And from what I hear, the suicide afterlife is no vacation.
2007-12-21 02:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jarod C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point your depression has become crippling.
You do not want to wake up.
You feel isolated from your friends.
You have no reason to get up anymore.
Please do not stay by yourself while you're feeling so badly.
Either go to the ER now and tell them you are not safe to stay alone, or make an appointment to see a therapist/doctor for medication to stabilize you. It sounds like you can't take much more and this is why you need to reach out for help right now.
Please hang in there with the rest of us.
2007-12-21 06:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm quite sorry approximately that. i be attentive to being youthful and at school isn't worry-free, i will additionally go alongside with the finished IQ element because of the fact i've got been in proficient considering that 4th grade and human beings made relaxing of me and mocked me lots, and nevertheless do, even however i'm a sophmore now. you in basic terms ought to undergo in ideas that suicide is an enduring answer to a non everlasting problem. you're in basic terms 12! you nevertheless have an entire lifestyles purely before you. you have an entire lifestyles to make something of your self and snort contained in the faces of those jerks who're choosing on you in all probability just to make themselves sense greater efficient approximately their very own flaws or lives. alongside with your severe IQ you may get right into a effective college and get a effective interest and a effective abode and purely have a great high quality lifestyles once you're older. do no longer injury each and every little thing top now purely considering which you're depressed. however i be attentive to you do no longer decide to you are able to seem in to telling an person which you have confidence approximately this, in the past it gets out of hand.
2016-11-04 05:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey nothing can be that bad. You need t now there are many people that love you. Just think how they would feel if you did something such as that. I think if you have a church you attend you need to talk to your pastor. He will be able to get you through this, I had a friend that felt the same way. It took a few friends and a pastor to see the light, You might also get some legal counseling also Just remember we love you and God Loves you too. Hope you will heed my advice and talk to someone about your problems. they might make you see that things are not that bad. God bless. If you need to talk email me. Just pull up my profile.
2007-12-21 12:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, the fact that you're asking for opinions is a great sign. Please don't give in yet. I've been where you are, and I know how hard it is. How the days seem to last forever, nothing is ever on t.v., ya don't want to even see a mirror. But it's okay. Life has pain and that will never change. Nothing in life worth doing is easy, it keeps us trying harder for what we want. Do you really want to die? Are you willing to check out alternative choices? You are definitly NOT ALONE. Pardon me if it seems like I hop around, I am bi-polar as well as depressed and anxious. This road we travel is sometimes wrought with peril, but we are strong because we are willing to talk about it. Just take one step at a time. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE pick up your phone and call for help. NO EMERGENCY ROOMS!!! You're on this earth for a certain reason, and until you find that reason, DON'T GIVE UP!! PLEASE. Feel free to find me, I'll talk to you ANYTIME!!
2007-12-21 03:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you have not got any confidance,you have good qualities & you have been put on this earth for a good reason, you will pull through then you will be able to help otherts in this situation, try to see the positive side in things, i suggest you get a dog then you will feel you have a perpose/reason to live to give it the love attention it needs & it will do the same with you, make your surroundings nice & comfortable to live in it will clear your mind. I would speak to your doctor, i know you probably have low motivation & can not see the point but they will give you medication to balance out your moods. you need to pick your self up and think i will pull through this yeah im having a tough time but there are people worse off than me. you get out there fella and start to change your life for the better. surround yourself with positive people it will rub off on you. good luck & stay strong
xxx
2007-12-21 03:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by x curly suz x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often wonder about this very subject. Not so much that I find myself feeling the same way, but wondering if in fact, we have the right to talk someone out of killing themselves. I am not one to believe that everything will get better. For some people it just doesn't, and if ending it is what they want, who am I to stand in their way??? Isn't it our inherent right to pick the time we leave this earth if we so desire? My mother tried to end her life when I was six years old. I often wonder if we all would have been better off if she'd succeeded... To be blunt, it would have saved the rest of us lots of heartache in later years.
2007-12-21 07:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say that eventhough we are strangers to each other, I care for you enough to not want any harm to befall you. God Loves you with an Everlasting Love. Whatever you may be going through can be told to Him and He will hear you from Heaven. Email me if you need help praying and I will continue to pray for you in Jesus' Name of mercy and Glory and Power, Amen!
2007-12-21 06:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Semp-listic! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one can make you enjoy life...but there are people who care about you so its not just about you....my father took his own life when i was 9 and in my eyes he didnt commit suicide , he deserted us...
2007-12-21 02:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋