i have been to psychologists, on pills, to the doctor, and more.
i really want to know why, if god supposedly loves me so much, that he makes me want to kill myself so much.
everyday is just more pain, it never ends. i just want this pain to go away.
since god has a plan for all of us, does this mean he wants me to die?
2007-12-21 02:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Maybe you're dealing with the wrong god, hun.
Seriously, keep talking to psychologists until you find the one that really can help. You will.
2007-12-21 02:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by LabGrrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no not exactly if you are a christian He will place you in heaven the best place He loves you alot your goal is to teach more people about God .when you die He calls you to go home to heaven. pray it will help alot. no pain no gain but dont give up hope and no it dose not mean He wants you to die there will be good days and bad days but God is not giving you pain on pourpose but dont give up hope you will be in my prayers
God Bless
JJ
2007-12-21 02:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem lies within. Not without.
God has nothing to do with it.
Let go of the pain. Just let it go.
Death, in this instance is not the best option.
2007-12-21 02:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider trying to live a life without God, since arguably that God doesn't exist.
It would probably help to disempower that which is causing you pain, and to do that you need to confront that pain. Don't try to muffle it with rationalization or antidepressants, face it, accept that it's happened, and move on from there.
2007-12-21 02:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
consider this : maybe your interpretation of god is all wrong. maybe god isnt this big entity that has a plan that is working out and is willing to adjust this plan if just asked. its...well not exactly credible.
what is more credible is that we are in control. god is a collective "us"...which gives us the power. when your power is weak, lean on the strength of others. there is illness in the world, and there are people whos will is to help others who are ill. to me, thats god.
surround yourself with goodness, push yourself to helping others with a smile on your face. make a graditude list...then expect a change :)
2007-12-21 02:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by dali333 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, God loves you so much that he wants you to be saved. You are the one with thoughts of dieing. You can choose to live or die, thats up to you. If you loved your family and others more than yourself you would not have these thoughts.
2007-12-21 02:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by iwant_u2_wantme2000 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was the same way. I was suicidal. And if you are like me then you need to be humiliated like I was in order to stop putting your self as being the sole contributer to truth in your life.
If God wants you as He does me, then He wants you to 'die to yourself'. That means you are going to hit the lowest of the low if necessary, to get your attention.
If you want peace with God, then you have to trust Him with your life. That is one definition of 'dying to yourself '. You let go of what you consider important, in favor of what is important to God.
Peace with God is gained through Jesus Christ, who He sent to provide for that peace. Peace is 'ceasing to struggle'. And you must cease to struggle against God. Jesus is the focus of a Christian. Jesus is our peace.
Please e-mail me if you think I made any sense at all.
2007-12-21 03:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves you means he wants you to do the best in this life without harming yourself. Take a new look at your life i.e. join a social group, change your appearance, find yourself a partner (opposite sex), these changes will change your outlook on life, also do something to better this planet i.e. environmental projects
2007-12-21 02:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by MariaAntonietta 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because your personal judgement on your life has nothing to do with God's love for you. he loves you, yes. but if you want to die, you can't blame that on God. you have to ask yourself why.
He doesnt want you to die. thats crazy. but you see, we are in what? flesh. and flesh is mortal. {{complete with thoughts.}} so just because your own thoughts want you to die, doesnt mean God's intentions are the same. he wants you to live, and live life abundantly. if he didnt he wouldnt have sacrificed his son
2007-12-21 02:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ayanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're mixed up enough - don't start trying to rationalize mythology along with everything else. The result will just be more confusion. Try pragmatism - it worked for me.
2007-12-21 02:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sly Phi AM 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋