How at risk am i for an std?

Question

Hi.. I would have to be the most untrusting& safe person in the world, but some how I have contracted an std, called Chlamydia.. I have had two encounters both with people I trusted, my ex and my new partner, both whom I made have two std screens before no condoms. My ex and I seperated for two months and in that time he had sex with at least one other person "protected" but there was at the time Chlamydia going around like wild fire in his group of friends, and my current partner had been with two other women "protected"one of them only once and the other only twice. My partner now has been fully std screened and all clear and my ex just calls me a ****, and says he has been and is clear too, it has been about 3.5 months since I had sex with him and I am worried after my std screens came back all clear, do I need another? might I just add I think I am making myself sick with worry, I have body aches, tired, sore back, lower abdo pain swollen glans.. IS THIS ME MAKING MYSELF SICK??

ok, well I have been back to the doctors again today, he says its stress the symptoms I am having, but both of my partners (ex and current) have come back negative.. which isnt uncommon in men! the abdo pain was put down after ultrasound today to fluid in the pouch of douglas sack, and maybe an eptopic pregnancy, which is not good, or could still be in the uterus, but still cant be good as for the doxycycline antibiotics I am on, and he fact hat I have had chlamydia whilst pregnant.. I dont know but I am bloody confused now??

Answer 1

Okay - you say you have contracted Chlamydia and yet your test results came back clear? How is that possible? You are contradicting yourself... please clarify.

Depending on the testing you had done recently, I would say that you are clear if they came back clear. If they did NAAT testing through urine and swab, it's the most reliable test now - up to 95% accurate where the older testing was 60%-80% accurate, usually missing about 30% of people infected.

Since you are feeling this ill (could be anxiety), then go back to your doctor and state you want another round of tests because you are having what you think are symptoms.

Answer 2

I think you now know everything you need to know about your ex, don't you? Like, he's probably a liar. Innocent people don't call you nasty names. Ask your doctor if you took the screens at the right time, or if something might show up later. Then, frankly, I would use condoms until you're married, because there are a lot of STDs going around, and you can see that you can't really, really trust condoms or the people you're with.

Answer 3

yes you are quite at risk