i'm 17 now and iv fallen for my english tutor who ive known for like a year as i go to his house twice a week he's 20 years older than me and has a girlfriend but he's very flirty and complimentary and stuff and me and him get on really well....i cant help having these feelings for him as i always seem to fall for older men...
i used to get myself over older men by telling myself nothin could happen but in secondary school i had a relationship with my teacher who i found out later was 44...
now i really want something to happen with my english tutor i REALLY like him and i cant help it...ive never felt so strongly about any guy my own age...and i dont know what to do or whether he really does like me....and also people keep telling me to FORGET my feelings about him and about older men but i really cant just forget about it or get over him as i really really like him. please help thanks x x
2007-12-18 23:13:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are too odl for YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-18 23:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by merlin558nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you like in an older Man is not Love, so I would suggest to leave this Guy alone, and concentrate on growing up, and to wipe this nonsense, of your Head. You act like you Love making someone, else Life miserable, to be happy yourself. What you are doing is playing games with People's emotions and you do not care, about anything but, you. Someday you are going to get what you deserve, big time, so if I were you, you better realize the Danger you are getting yourself, into.
2007-12-18 23:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the attraction to older men. I get them too.
They're more secure, they're mature and relaxed in their lives, they know what commitment is, they're basically the whole guy package if you meet the right one.
i think, because he is ytour teacher, you'd better not say anything. But if it were me, and I knew he liked me, I'd go for it, but it's not the right thing to do.
He could lose his job.
I hope you figure out what's best for you.
x
2007-12-18 23:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by SuperKylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A word: therapy. Think about it. It might be for you.
Only make sure your therapist is a woman.
2007-12-18 23:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you expressed your feelings with him? I am older man and I know younger women are attracted to me. I especially like younger women. I think you should go for it!! and Good luck!!
2007-12-18 23:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by rockwynd1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if hes in a relationship then why destroy it ,get a boy your own age.
2007-12-18 23:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by me m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too old!!!!
2007-12-18 23:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Shanaz B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋