I have a girl friend, we've been together for seven months. we have never made love. 4 days ago, she said to me that she is not a virgin any longer. I am disappointed by what she said. I love her but i want (if i marry) my wife should be a virgin, just like me.
Am i wrong....? Am i selfish...?
2007-12-18 16:07:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh no sweet hart ur not wrong or selfish...ur decisions r gud and if she couldnt stick by u on that s he should have just broke it off with u....shes the 1 thats wrong
2007-12-18 16:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by jazzmyn b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is no longer a virgin means she lost her virginity to someone else. She couldn't wait until she married you, however far into the future that might have been. She has another person in her life now and she needs to decide who she wants to remain with. Let it be her decision. If you agree with it then go with it. If you disagree with it then fight for her if you can accept a non-virgin wife. But then you may have trouble controling her urges now since they've been "activated".
2007-12-18 16:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Opinionated 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did she cheat on you or was she not a virgin when you met? If she wasn't a virgin when you met, I think you're overreacting.
Virginity is not an important thing. If you want to wait for marriage, that's fine. However, most people don't feel the same way. Maybe your girlfriend didn't and then changed her mind. The fact that she is waiting with you should be more important than what she did in the past.
2007-12-18 16:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u remain a virgin till marriage and want a virgin well you have the right to want that. i want that. but i mean don't let that be the sole determinant in who you will marry
2007-12-18 16:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well now you know she is not , so now if you love her you will have to accept that
2007-12-18 16:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by LSU Fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋