be careful fellas...this happened to a few of my buds. And it wasn't the hot girls either. They do it so they have to get married, or their life is ruined.
Is this common?
2007-12-18 15:58:51 · 24 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im starting to suspect that about someone im sort of with. she likes to do things always in a risky way even if im trying to think rubber...i have heard of these cases, its crazy..ruins the persons life.
2007-12-18 16:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Torsti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it ain't common with me. The girl I got with insisted I use a condom each time, even though I'm clean.
Of course, maybe I'm just not meant to be survive by offspring, LOL.
I think it can be common, though, but the guy has to be at least fairly rich, or fairly good-looking.
On Court TV a guy who got a million dollar settlement from an accident had to pay child-support to two women, despite being deformed from the accident. Shows that money talks. So, it may be common! Child support is a lot of money, and has to be paid until the kid is 18. Oh, and you get issued a warrant if you don't pay.
2007-12-19 00:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of any women personally nor have I heard any story of a girl trapping a buy by getting pregnant, but I do believe that some women are desperate enough to do that and its sick. I don't think they'll be off any better married to someone who really doesn't want to be with them. Still, I don't think its that common but then again I still have yet to live to an age when having a kid is common
2007-12-19 00:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know some! but most I know is "hot girls" too. Because normally a girl with respect to herself will not do that unless she is so deeply blinded with that guy. And this only happen in countries were guys are obliged to be responsible to marry a woman if he gets it pregnant. Because they believe that he should be responsible for what happened and they believed too that girls who got pregnant already will be hard to get another man that will be serious to them again. This is common in Asia and latin America or mostly predominantly Catholic countries as far as I know cause I'm an asian hehehe
2007-12-19 00:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by shibereta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been trapped but it is a dumb move on their end especialy when they really didn't want a baby or were ready fo rone becuase you can still leave it's just the child support gets you but even still I would be there for the kid not the girl if it was used as a trap
2007-12-19 00:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many have tried since probably forever.
It's common for girls pretty,ugly,rich and poor.
And very very sad to be so desperate.
I know that some guys put needle holes in protection/prevention items, to achieve the same thing.
But I think females try this stunt more then males.
2007-12-19 00:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by 2Janus2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My now ex-best friend did this to my now ex-boyfriend. Even after I'd warned him she'd do it. What a dummy he was for not listening. Now he's married to her (out of obligation), and he's raising her two other illegitimate children from previous relationships. That's right-- she's got three kids by three different men. Women like her make the rest of us look really, really bad. Is it common? God, I hope not. She's the only one I know of who's done this.
2007-12-19 00:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jelyol 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know it is more common among women who have low self esteem and would do anything to get a man. Some women are goldiggers and are after money. One of my good friends currently plays in the NBA and he has women trying to trap him by saying they are pregnant.
2007-12-19 00:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex had a girl pop up and say she was pregnant after we had only been dating three months. We broke up for a month and then he found out she was lying because she wasn't showing or going to the doctors. I couldn't believe that she would actually lie about something that serious, especially since she was only a one night stand.
2007-12-19 00:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know my [enter foul words here] eventual mother-in-law once told my fiance [before he was my fiance] to be careful because I might get myself pregnant on purpose to keep him around.
I don't know anyone who has ever done this. I know a lot of people who did not get pregnant on purpose and did not get married. My mother is the prime example of how well a single mother can do.
As far as I'm concerned I don't need a man to raise my kids, and I certainly don't need one around who doesn't want to be there.
2007-12-19 00:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by anw122 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if guys are looking out for easy fun and sex without the willingness to take responsibility, then how come girls are wrong if they are trapping the guys?
I guess sex should be responsibly done! If you don't love someone, don't have sex with her; and if she gets pregnant, then you must marry her, because you are expected to have sex only with the person you love. Now, didn't you have sex with her because you loved her? So why not marry her?
Sorry, all the fault does not lie with women!
2007-12-19 00:03:42 · answer #11 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋