hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious
2007-12-18 15:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Whoa.. I saw this question posted in a different category just a few days ago. Like, word-for-word. I already gave you my answer then, but I'll give it again:
He's playing you. dump him.
It's not as detailed this time. I'm sorry that you're having a hard time figuring out your ex-boyfriend's feelings, but it's never easy when you're trying to figure them out. I can hardly figure out what my ex is doin', lol. I think you should just stop caring about what he does, and, please, stop kissing him! He WANTS you to kiss him, and I don't think it's for a good reason.
2007-12-18 15:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
Your right! It doesn't make any sense. He obviously is not interested in "commitment" because he is (kissing) other girls besides you.
Perhaps the next time he comes to visit and wants to kiss you... Don't! That's right, tell him, "No." Look! He didn't have time for you when you were dating, and now he wants to make time for you to ...kiss you? Think about that!
Another thing is, he may just want to hang on to you and not let go of you. By kissing you, it gives him the (false) security that you and he are still an issue. However, it is NOT fair to you. It's time for him to ...move on, so you can too. He is not interested in a commitment, just a "kissing fling." Does that make sense?
Perhaps it's time for you to tell him (nicely) to "kiss off."
Sincerely in Christ Jesus,
lostnsavd...
P.S. Or... you could just come out and ask him..."What is the purpose...of you kissing me?"
2007-12-18 23:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by lostnsavd 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may be able to make better sense of this situation by Marrying him (If not), then move on and find somebody else who'll desire to take care of you as if you were a Thousand precious Emeralds.
Other than that I don't know what else to tell you.
2007-12-18 23:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of us are really qualified to tell you Danielle, we don't know him.
Perhaps he is interested in the unknown or perhaps he really likes you and can't rid you from his mind.
Just talk to him about it, if he is a good person he will respond with the truth.
2007-12-18 23:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by ɹɐǝɟsuɐs Blessed Cheese Maker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wants your kisses.
2007-12-18 23:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong category
but its most likely cause he still likes you
and you let him and lead him on to it
2007-12-18 23:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does this have ti do with R&S?
2007-12-18 23:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋