Okay my boyfriend broke up with me because he didnt believe that I never had sex before [I NEVER HAD SEX BEFORE] i tell him and i swear on my life that i never had sex...but he still doesnt believe me because i know alot about sex. So how can I prove to him that I mean it when I say i never had sex. and how can I get him back..and get him to fully trust me again? We still love each other and talk all the time..he just says he loves me but hes not inlove with me anymore..and i think thats beceause he stopped trusting and believeing me. So help me please!! Oh...i have never has sex with him...but i have um...masturbated [fingers] lol sorry if thats to much info...but yeah...thats all i have ever done...
There was really no major trust issues before this. Times we fell asleep on the phone he says that he heard sexual stuff between two people..but i think it was a party line. Thats what started the trust issuse. Thats all i can think of rigth now.
2007-12-18 14:17:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He obviously has a trust issue and never really trusted u in the first place which may have happend in a previous relationship or family issue. he's not worth all this worry u have over him. Sounds like a insecurity within himself which is not a good thing. Masturbating is not a bad thing, majority of guys do it whether they r in a relationship or not. let him go and grow up and sort things out. He'll get over it.
2007-12-18 15:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! He sounds like a jerk! And he would find some other reason to withdraw from you if it were not for this, please believe me - he is either very stupid, or very untrusting, or both, and he doesn't respect your time, BTW, if he is hanging on the phone all night. You can't prove a negative, anyway; he is looking for problems, so he will manufacture them if he doesn't find them. Why would you want to be with that? Ick!
2007-12-18 22:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋