i like this guy and he knows that but we are only mates but when girls come up to him infront of him and flirt i dont know what to do ? i dont want to be jelouse and let him know that any advice please ?? please because i just dont want to be jelouse
2007-12-18 14:12:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what do i do when they flirt with him?
2007-12-18 14:22:31 · update #1
This post is confusing - sounds like you ARE jealous. It can be a little embarrassing and awkward when you are just friends with someone, and ppl flirt with your companion in front of you - it is rude, like you are invisible. You could try STARING at the flirter, that would shut her down, because she would feel really strange.
2007-12-18 14:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's clear you have feelings that are stronger than his. This is usually a recipe for heartbreak, you like him in a romantic way, he doesn't feel the same, and as long as you continue spending time with him(even as friends) you will want more. The other thing that ends up happening is you close yourself off to potential romantic partners because this guy is always on your mind hoping for something he has already sent the signals is not going to happen. You're better than that, now go out and find someone just as cool who is into you.
Cheers!
2007-12-18 14:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Harlow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as mates things like that shouldn't bother you if it does maybe you should think about stepping the friendship up a notch if that's not the way you want to go then just turn the other cheek
2007-12-18 14:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by big nickel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋