I was totally in love with him and he hurt me "real bad". He's hurt me many times before and I never retalliated but this time I feel like I need to do some things. I have atleast two things in mind I need to do to make myself feel better... any more ideas?
2007-12-18 12:08:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slap him in the face, then kick him in the balls...haha. you can do that, or maybe go out with him again and then act like it was a bet with your friend in front him. or do both!
2007-12-18 12:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by *I Want To Hold Your Hand* 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You say he's hurt you many times? Did you ever think that maybe this person could have some serious issues? I'm not kidding here. I had a best guy friend and I couldn't figure out what his problem was -- he wanted me around, he'd call all the time, he'd ask for hel with is divorce -- give me (and our family) a big hug before he went home -- and then he'd message me saying "I DON'T NEED FRIENDS - I DON'T NEED ANYONE" and then a week later, it would change. I went through this with a FRIEND for 5 years......AND THEN found out he was bipolar and not on meds.
Retaliation can sometimes kick you in the butt.....it could make YOU look bad. Just walk away and don't look back and FINALLY PLEASE realize that you don't deserve this crap. Walk around with your head held high -- I don't care if you have to "fake" that feeling......just do it. You will be SURPRISED how many people start respecting you and he may get jealous -- and you can tell him to go fly a kite. AND THEN YOU SMILE!!
2007-12-18 12:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would need more information as to what you CAN do to him in order to give good advice. The first thing to look at is what he is afraid of. Does he have any secrets he doesn't want some people to know? Also a good overall payback is just to disown him and never speak to him again. That is probably the right thing, and it will save you from a lot of nonsense.
2007-12-18 12:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by the Boss 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how much he actually likes you...you could either stage a false dump, i.e pretend you're gonna dump him but see things through (as if you've forgiven him) or give him the silent treatment, but flirt with a few guys whilst on this treatment...and if that doesn't work, after say a week or so on this treatment try the dumping act.
If you don't like him and wanna get back at him so much though, maybe you should be looking for someone else anways, nice to move on. you don't deserve him by the sounds of it :o)
2007-12-18 12:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's messed up.
Even though it sounds stupid, just be the better person. Break up, slap him, walk away. And you're done. No need for payback because he could turn around and do something worse to you. It's not going to make the situation any better.
2007-12-18 12:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by :) 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
sweety, revenge is sweet.....to you, but you never know when revenge will hurt others that you didn't want to ....don't get too into it. And you say you've gone back to him in the past, why don't you just completely kick him out of your life and not even think about him? Nothing hurts more to someone then you not caring about what they did to you. Don't show him that he really hurt you, just be like F*** you!, i don't reallly give a D*** about you, i'm moving on while you can do w/e you want.
that's really the best way to handle it.
goodluck and be happy! =]
2007-12-18 12:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Q 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
from my experience: if u're thinking like that it means he still has a hold on u. hurting him won't make u feel better. it'll probably make u feel even worse because he's gonna retaliate. payback means u're emotionally digging yourself even deeper into the hole. payback won't help u move on. it's wasted energy on your part. i haven't been able to follow my own advice, but i hope u can. :)
2007-12-18 12:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Happy-Miserable-Female 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Retaliation doesn't always make you feel better and may I suggest if you really want to hurt him tell him you wish him happiness and pretend you are sincere. he'll feel like the sap he is.
2007-12-18 12:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by darbygirl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
girl dont try to get revenge that will only make things worse! plus thats childish and if u try to get revenge than he will know he got to u ....what u should do is just act like u dont care and go on about ur life!
2007-12-18 12:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Grow up and get on with your life.
The best revenge is letting the other person know how happy you are without them.
Good luck!
2007-12-18 12:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by jasper addleton 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he hurt you more than once, then you have allowed him to do this. If this is the case then you need to figure out why you are letting this happen way more than you need to "revenge" yourself against him. Why are you hanging around to let him hurt you?
2007-12-18 12:12:54 · answer #11 · answered by kiwibarb11 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋