Is is wrong to make out with someone if you are kind of seeing someone?

Question

Make Out, Pash, French Kiss, Hook Up.. Whatever you call it.

Would it be disloyal to this guy i'm kind of seeing?

I have no feelings for this guy I might make out with. I'm doing it for fun... =]

nooooo!!

he isnt my boyfriend. we just like eachother and... stuff

so you can all get f****d im doing it

Answer 1

If you are not in a committed relationship, its fair game. If you are in a committed relationship, then yes its wrong.

Answer 2

Ha, well, would it hurt the guy you are sort of seeing if he found out about it?

On the other hand... why isn't it the guy you are kind of seeing that you want to make out with? The guy is obviously leaving a void if you are wanting to do this. It is not your fault that he is leaving a void.

Its wrong to try to keep one guy on the hook sorta as a backup plan though. Hes going to get really hurt and you are just using him. Just cut him loose and explore things with the new guy. If he is any kind of a man he will win you back.

Answer 3

If you have an agreement with your regular guy that you will not be engaging in "fun" with anyone else, then yes, it is wrong. It is wrong because you are betraying the trust of someone you supposedly care about on purpose...you are purposely hurting them. If, however, you do not have such an agreement, than you could be hurting the guy you are making out with "just for fun". If you aren't attracted to Guy #2, why are you swapping spit with him, and opening yourself up to possible infections?

consider, also, how would you feel if your Significant Other did the same thing to you? If you would not like it, and for the reasons stated above, then you might reconsider what you are doing.

Answer 4

Relationships fall apart if u create the wrong image of going out with a guy you know you won't ever see again. Resist the temptation. It will make it better in the long run if u 2 start a long term relationship. There would be no trust otherwise.

Answer 5

guy you're seeing, as in bf/gf? but Yes I think it's wrong to make up with out with someone while with somebody else. It's practically Cheating. Not good. Even though it was for fun, other people can look at it the wrong way and think badly about what you're doing and how you're treating the guy you're seeing. I say stop doing it if you still want to be with the guy you're seeing, and if you want to continue making out with someone else for fun, I say you break it off with the guy you're seeing so there wil be no problems.

Answer 6

first of all, you do have feelings for him because I'm sure you would not make out with a homeless guy living on the street even if its for fun. You may also be lusting or just infatuated. what I've learnt nowadays is if you have someone but plan on cheating on them with someone and that person knows you're involved, they'll tend to treat you as if they don't care. You may be doing it for fun but you're just making him the "big man on campus" so to speak. Have you thought about how you're gonna feel after u sleep with him? suppose he spreads rumors about you? i wouldn't want you in that position, its embarassing. I'm just being honest, woman-to-woman. Just think about it and do whats right. I hope u make the right decision! good luck!

Answer 7

I myself, feel it's really night right to do if you are sorta seeing someone else! But that really isn't the worst of your actions and maybe that's why so many are getting riled up so much!

Life is full of cheaters, no matter what the relationships are and by you having like 2 guys, well just isn't moral or very respectful for the other guy you are seeing! I myself if you were sorta of my girl and I found out you were sucking someone elses face in sorta speak, I would be very angry with you and most likely that would be the end of us real fast!

Plus you have to understand that your going to get a bad reputation messing with more then one guy at a time! I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want rumors started, that really aren't totally true!!! When things like that get out, a lot worse stuff is almost always added by the time it gets through a few people and the story ends up so bad, and yet everyone will believe it!!! That's just the way people are today!

So either your going to be with the guy you are kind of seeing or the guy your just kissing and making out with just to have fun! It really isn't fair to either one!!! Put yourself in there spot! How would you be reacting if they were doing it to you!

Sure you could right now say I wouldn't really care, But would it actually be true! I really don't think so! I don't want you upset or angry, but I feel the least you could do is to let both know there not the only guy in your life right now and give them the options of either excepting what your doing or not!

At least then your being honest with the both of them instead of hiding around! Honesty and Trust is the Biggest part of any relationship along with Respect for one another!
And maybe deep down your doing it because you don't want to get serious with any one guy yet and maybe playing the field, but still you shouldn't be doing it with 2 at the same time! It's just not right, When guys pull that! There called dogs, pigs and players or cheaters and scum bags! So I really don't think you want people naming you any names that are very hurtful to a females!

It's your reputation and self respect on the line, I guess we all can do what ever we want, But isn't there a limit before over crossing the line from honesty to dishonesty! Everyone has enough problems through there journeys in life! Adding more just makes things that much worse! Like you said your just having fun, well then at least let both guys know that there is 2 guy friends in your life at the same time! it's the honest thing to do and that way your not hurting anyones feels down the road!!! Sure you could tell the guy your sorta seeing that you and the guy your kissing and messing with that your just friends with him, But that would be dishonest! because just friends don't suck in each others faces!!! That's a lot more then just friends!!! Even best friends still don't do that! If there seeing someone else too!

Now I'm not trying to degrade you or even try to even make you look bad! I'm just being honest with you like I do to all questions I answer! You asked the question, I gave you an answer and I felt I did it truthfully and honestly and didn't attack you or anything else like some are! That isn't me and that's why I'm Mr Answers! I try my best to give straight and honest answers! So I hope what I said as an answer will help you decide what is the best thing to do!

I don't answer questions to see if I can get people mad like some are doing! I try to do it in a respectful and honest way and well explained I feel is the right way to be answering questions! I don't do it for the points I do it to help people!

Answer 8

be honest with both of them and say you want to be single and have fun. That way your not being disloyal to anyone.
But by making one boy think one thing and then going behind his back, yup, that's disloyal.
You want fun with more than one boy, be single.

Answer 9

Coming from a married women I think whatever makes you happy. Your not married right now and who knows maybe the kiss will make you want to consider that person as a boyfriend. Whatever u do be safe and be protective.

Answer 10

it is wrong and disloyal to him because you may have a Good relationship with him and you may not know how the guy you kissed,french kissed,or hookup with might feel about you nether the guy your in a relationship with feel about you think about that....!!!!!!!! take it from someone who done it before!!!!!!

Answer 11

Yeah, it's very wrong. If you're going out with someone else, that's disloyal to them. If the person you're going out with finds out, he'll probably break up with you...