We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..
We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.
It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..
what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.
She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.
2007-12-18 10:42:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
spoke to her yesterday, she seemed a bit reserved but was glad that i called her. We ended our conversation really soon, but she said i'll ttul. Then she called back again, but i didn't get a chance to pick up the phone. I didn't call her last night bc it hurts too much to want her but yet can't be with her. So i just said sorry, came hope from work and fell asleep in a text.
sorry for posting this question so much, i just can't seem to get over the good times we had..
2007-12-18 10:45:49 · update #1
you're insane. people look at his Q & A's and you will see why.
2007-12-19 04:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wonder Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earlier this year I met a girl in a 3-year long-term relationship. She admitted she was attracted to me and started developing feelings for me. Things with her boyfriend were turning stale and in the end she decided to break up with him and pursue a relationship with me.
I felt flattered and rather cocky knowing I had just won this girl from her long-term boyfriend. Things were going well, she didn't want to talk to him and every time he called she brushed him off. Her friends praised me, she was proud to be with me, and things were developing fast.
However, her ex-boyfriend suddenly changed his attitude and instead of getting jealous of me or upset over being dumped, he gave us his best wishes, told her there were no hard feelings and he moved on. He started hanging round with his friends more and stopped calling her.
After two weeks of not hearing from him she started calling him to check if he was ok and see what he was up to, only to find he was fine and enjoying his free time. Soon she started pushing him to remain friends and asking him to meet up with her. He postponed, cut his calls with her short, and even stood her up a few times.
Yet she persisted more.
All this time I could see it was getting under her skin and that I was losing her affection. I could have been the perfect guy, but he had the upper hand and there wasn't a thing I could do about it. Every time he made an excuse not to meet her or ignored her call, she would get uptight and keep moaning about him.
Sure enough she told me she wanted him back. She left me and started pursuing him all the time, but he continued backing off. She became obsessed and depressed, wouldn't look at another guy and even burst out crying if he didn't answer her calls.
Next thing I hear, they're back together under his terms. He had her in the palm of his hand.
2007-12-18 10:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry-the way I see it----IT IS THE END.
You now belong to an elite club of dumped males.
To be honest there is a club for females also.
2007-12-18 10:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋