how do i talk to the girl i like if tings have been kinda awkward between us??

Question

so basically i saw her last year, and fell in "love at first sight", so to speak.so i found her myspace cause i was too shy to talk in person.but i found out she had a boyfriend, so i kinda backed off.now after 3 weeks of school he dumped her and was single so i started with the whole myspace thing again.but i was still shy, soi got one of my friends to talk to her.well hes and *** hole who just thinks hes so cool and hard and acts like hes hot **** cause he has muscles,(******).so then her brother,also on wrestling, found out and said she mite be instersted in me.but she told my arrogent friend that she didnt want a boyfriend so soon.so he started telling her lies and **** and now she wont even look at me and i have no idea what to do.the @ss hole also started hitting on her and said he lies her,but he hits on every girl anyway.hes being a **** and a cockblocker. what do i say to her and what do i do about my backstabing friend?she always seems like she doesnt want to c me and avoidsme whenever i c her.so im like scared to tell her anything

Answer 1

i think u need to stop being scared and man up and talk to this girl and explain to her about everything..because what if she did like you..you would never know cause ur sitting there frightened of the girl and thats when regret takes over and u start coming out with the "what if's"..so dont be shy,and talk to her.. and u really cant expect to start things up with a girl threw myspace..thats just a little weird if u ask me and it shows u have no confidence in urself..girls dont like unconfident guys..if u know ur friend messing up something between someone u feel head over heels for.. the best way is is to go to her and explain things..whatever u do just dont come off as being weird from the start..well now that i think of it ..either way your gonna come off of being weird..because you never talked her other than myspace..so obv she doesnt know how u are..other than that ur shy..so for u to just approach her randomly does it already..but yeah the thing is just dont be afraid or shy..and for ur friend..tell him whats on ur mind..of how u think its f***ed up for trying to talk to the 1 girl you really like..but yeah my only advice once again is to not be shy..

Answer 2

It sounds like you were desperate for help,
so you turned to the most availible person in sight.
Aka, your backstabbing friend.
If this girl is really confused about what happened
between her and your friend, then you need to
explain things to her.
Tell her that you are the one who likes her and
that you were too shy to chat with her on Myspace
so you got your friend to do it.
If she's worth it,
she'll understand.

Answer 3

Tell her what your friend did, tell her it's awkward with her avoiding her, and that even if you guys can't be together, then you would love it if you guys could talk