uhm sex im ready?

Question

im ready to have sex but idk about my bf
we've been togeather for a long time
and idk if hes ready or not i know that he loves me alot
to tell u the truth he loves me more then i love him
but im a virgin and i want to have sex with him cus i think im ready... but i want to kno if he is i asked him what he thinks is the youngest age a person should have sex and he said 12
oh yea and hes a virgin too i know i should talk to him about haveing sex with me but idk wat i should say so please help
and i already know the stuff that can happen to me if i have sex

Answer 1

Well..you dont just ask "can we have sex?" or "wanna have sex?" be romantic about it.. its hard to tell you because usually the guy is supposed to be the romantic one... If you believe you are ready, you can do what you want. Personally, I didnt wait and Im kind of regretting it, if you do have sex though, be sure its safe. Good luck ;)

Answer 2

First of all, a 13-year-old having sex is just downright disgusting and slutty. You need to tell her that even if he wears a condom, there is a high risk of it breaking considering they're first timers. And if she gives him her virginity, which is a pretty HUGE thing, and they break up shortly afterwards, she's going to feel used. She'll look back on her "first time" (when she was thirteen..ew) and think, that was really stupid. I should of waited til I was for sure in love. Also, word is going to get around. It doesn't matter if she only tells her two best friends, there is no way she's going to get through highschool and middle school with only two people knowing she is not a virgin. This will potentially ruin her reputation. Also, I'm fourteen. A few of my friends are not virgins. I was with them right after they lost it, to their boyfriends who they have been dating for a LONG time. They were crying really bad, and told me they felt really dirty. If that's how they feel at fourteen, I can't imagine what a 13 year old must feel. Tell your friend that you can't control her and you'll support her with whatever, but tell her all those points and that you'll lose a lot of respect for her, as will a lot of other people. And if she gets pregnant, her life is officially over. So why risk it?

Answer 3

If your asking your not ready to have sex and you should hold off untill you are really sure and really ready to have sex and you may think you are ready and wanting to have sex because everyone around is doing it does not mean it's right for you to have sex. And when the time is right use a condom even if he does not want to give him a bj and have the condom in your mouth when you go down on him and the condom will be on with out him knowing.

Answer 4

See, that's the part that knocks me for a loop...if you can't decide how to approach him for a conversation about sex, how can you think you're ready to actually have sex with each other?

Answer 5

first off, 12 is a ridiculous age to have sex. 14-15 at the LEAST. just ask em if he wants to do it. no need to be nervous

Answer 6

as long as you know the effects, and are aware that you could be making a huge mistake. if you really love him, you won't feel uncomfortable talking to him about this. plz be responsible and use the neccesary precautions. how old are you anyway???

Answer 7

If you can't talk about sex with your bf, then I'd say you're not ready.

Answer 8

how old are you? you sound young i think you should wit until you find that one that you want share the rest f your life with i know that i am not going to do it until i am married and i hope you do the same

Answer 9

and how old are you though? cuz age 12? thats absolutely stupid and careless.

Answer 10

tisk tisk tisk
and how old are u?