Coach Problem?

Question

I have a basket ball coach who both of my parents are close friends with, im nice to all of her little children, im really good friends with her daughter (my age), like ex. her and her 5 children will come out to my house is East Hampton for the weekend. I'm also a really good basket ball player like i get tons of shots in a game. well today i was upset and didnt feel good.Also at times I have problemss breathing. So today i got hit with all 3 of those things. So i wasnt playing good like i usually get tons of shots in but by half time i had none. so my other coach who same thing really close with really good friends with daughter asked me why i wasnt playing good and i said i was having trouble breathing today. but that doesnt mean i want out. so my coach starts the second half and guess what im not in with the usual starting 5 some sucky girl is in for me. so i was like ok whatever im annoyed but thats ok. We were losing majorly. So then she decides to put me in for this different g

*girl. so i was about to check in when she says get back here your not playing anymore in this game. like yelling at me so i go back to the bench and she starts yelling at me and she is demanding the answer why she doesnt think I can play, because i had said to the other coach that sometimes when i cant breath u cant play which explains my not playing well. So she is scremaing at me and im really sensititive so i start crying and shes embarassing me like you wouldnt know if i just said the team sucks im leaving. so my mom comes over to see whats wrong because im crying then she says that i said that i couldnt play but i had never said any of this. so my mom gets mad at me which she doesnt do a lot and it was in a different town from school but its the town i live in. then the coach makes it seem like im a big primadona like im too good for the team and she comes over to come after this and says we win and lose as a team and shesaid i dont care if we win or lose which is complete bul

l. and then she starts to get me mad putting all of these different girls in that are bad and stuff to annoy me. and then my mom said that i couldnt go to my christmas concert at school which im in the front row clarintet because she made it seem like im really mean and stuff and i wouldnt mind but im always really nice and bubbly to everyone. and now my moms home so im gonna go face her.

Answer 1

just look at it a different way, i have asthma and my coaches wanted the best for me when i couldn't breathe good. and when i stopped breathing once it was the scariest thing of my life i bet they just wanted the best for you until you caught your breath and if you stopped breathing that would be bad! and all of your teammates would get scared to keep playing

but i don't know why she would scream at you i just now saw that... sorry

it might have been something like you were taking a shot every chance you got instead of being smarter and passing or cutting in for a lay up

Answer 2

Let me answer this for you, from a coach's perspective:
1. If I feel that your health is an immediate concenr, I will take you out. No victory is worth potentially endangering the life of my star player.
2. You miss the 2nd half, so what! Get healthy and be ready to play the next game.
3. Basketball is a team sport. If you are off your game, you have to get the rest of your team involved. If you are out of the game, you have to trust the the other girls are goona pick up the slack until you can return.
4. Be a leader on that team! If you are so good, then use what you know to help the rest of the girls get better. They still won't be as good as you, but at least you guys won't get your tails handed to you.
5. Basketball is not just about shooting. If you can't get any shots of, try to get more assist, or hit the boards, or focus on the defensive end.

Don't get pissed just because you can't get your shots. Be a leader and contribute in other ways.

Answer 3

The coach was being a jerk.Tell your mom what happened.

Answer 4

I guess your coach wanted to do what was best for your health.

Answer 5

to confusing for me