hi im an 18 yr old male who is still a virgin and prude.. im not bad looking and is popular for my school... but im very prude and a virgin.. im not mad about being a virgin at all.. but i am for being prude.. ive never seen or done anything but kiss.. and i will not look at porn bc its wronge.. im very self concious about my body.. and females my age that could give me adivice please do with email adress to contact
2007-12-18 08:37:08 · 15 answers · asked by X-tian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not gay... i could hook up with girls if i want.. im 5'9 156 pounds..
2007-12-18 08:40:26 · update #1
Well, I'm a 19 year old female, so I'll give you some advice on this one.
Lets put it this way... girls want a guy who is confident. Even if you think you're too fat, too skinny, too pale.. whatever, you just have to act like you think that you're pretty damn sexy. It's kind of the equivalent of you trying to be with a girl who is saying "oh my gosh.. I'm sooooo fat"... nobody wants to hear that. They want to know that you're happy with yourself.
I dated a guy who was absolutely not atractive at all, but his personality was just awesome. I know that you're not the type to be into having sex, but this guy just basically told me that he was the best i would ever have, if i would just give him a chance. I pretty much just fell in love with him because he was a good guy, fun to be around, and yeah.. he was good in bed too.
Girls will not normally make the first move, so get your confidence to an all-time high, and just have some fun. Just keep in mind that the girl is probably just as scared of what you might think of her, so just have some confidence and give her a boost as well... "mmm.. you taste good" or something, you know?
good luck!
2007-12-18 08:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by good golly its molly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
prude means your afraid to "touch" a female. your not fat, you have no reason to be prude or self conscious about your body, my god i weigh 240 lbs and was getting with a girl who was 120 lbs. at the age of 16. Im now 18 and recently broke up with her. get out there and quit worrying about stuff!
2016-04-10 06:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey youre one of the very few awesome guys these days! usually guys are freaks who love doing the things you refuse to, which is why they can only get skanky girls. there is nothing wrong with you! you just have a very pure mind.
2007-12-18 08:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_princess_of_the_realms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cos ur self-conscious doesn't mean you need to be prudish. if you don't want to have sex or look at porn that's fine, i know guys that would agree with you, but there's nothing wrong with getting a little experience even if it isn't sex.
if you find a half-decent girl, she won't mind if you're a virgin
x
2007-12-18 08:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sound like a stand up guy to me. Save it some young lady will appreciate it when you pop the question.
2007-12-18 08:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should be ashamed at all some people maybe you just wont to wait till they have found the right person and other wont to wait till marriage its all right and dont let anyone tell you different
2007-12-18 08:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by honeybunny4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i love you. your the first 18 year-old guy who doesnt like porn. too bad im a lot younger than you.
like 5 years....
GOOD LUCK FINDING A GIRL
2007-12-18 08:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you control what you do. If you don't want to be prude then don't. If you're good looking their is nothing wrong.
2007-12-18 08:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by hcnjc61307 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woooo prudes! Its your personal choice and just be proud of what you've got.
2007-12-18 08:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice fake account your started TODAY.
Dude, make it a little less obvious - you demean us ALL when you're so transparent.
2007-12-18 08:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋