I am 15 but he claims he loves me and wants to marry me and have my children, but his past is soooo hard to forget, he has had sex with 14 year olds, also has fingered a 13 year old in his bed. I think he's changed but knowing his past makes me wonder why he's suddenly changed, also why did he sleep with the younger ones? (Was it because he couldn't get anything older.)?x
2007-12-18 06:10:18 · 31 answers · asked by x1gemma1x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but he send roses and chos to my house n has cried over me many times !! and is movin to liv by mee and i am immature i think for my age
2007-12-18 06:19:33 · update #1
not immature*
2007-12-18 06:20:20 · update #2
Your only 15 yourself.. you shouldnt be having sex with anyone at your age-
and he SHOULD KNOW better than to have sex with underage girls.. maybe someone will report him for having sex with minors...
2007-12-18 06:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Stay away from him NOW. I am dead serious. he is not good for you I can already tell. Having sex with a 13 and 14 year old??? NO WAY. To me all he wants from you is sex or might molest your children. Besides you are way too young. He is 19 and your 15??? Please dont do this. Enjoy life more and relize that you are just soo young... You have more ahead of you like a career and college. And you want to marry him now??? You are better than this. I know. You can have a better lfe without him and a career. When you probably marry him you will just drop out of school and... NO. How are you going to get a job?? At Mcdonalds??? Look its your choice and life but if I were you I would stop seeing him. And stay in school and make good grades. Because in the end believe me it is worth it. Trust me on this. Dont make the same mistakes i did. I am just warning you now but I hope you take this seriously and know what you are doing.
2007-12-18 14:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one if your 15 and he is 19 that right there is a sign it's
illegal and if this was done well you were together one thing I have to say once a cheater Always a cheater ether way you should leave him now find some one you own age 19 going after a 15 year old tell you mom or dad or you teacher they will know what do .
Peace.
2007-12-18 14:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ajrp3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww! Also, while we're on the subject, 15 is only one year older than 14, so I don't see why it's any worse in your eyes for him to sleep with a 14-year-old. Maybe you should get your license and your diploma before you start worrying about getting married and having babies.
2007-12-18 14:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
gemma, your boyfriend's interest in girls that much younger than he is is a huge red flag waving right in your face.
The age gap isn't much when everybody's fully adult, but 14 to 19, 15 to 19, and 13 to 19, the difference is huge. And illegal.
Your guy is breaking the law if he's sexually active with you. Even if you say yes, you are not old enough to give informed consent.
Frankly, I suspect his interest in much younger girls suggests one or both of two problems. One, he's so lacking in self-esteem that he cannot even consider appropriate-aged girls, which is a huge problem all by itself. Or Two, which is far worse, his sexual interests are in very young teens, in which case he'll probably continue his quest for young girls and end up being some thugs jail "girlfriend."
By the time that happens you want him to be ancient history. Lose this guy NOW.
2007-12-18 14:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I imagine that he told them that he loved them, wanted to marry them and have their children as well. I can't say I see that a person who had sex with 14yr. olds has changed all that much by attempting to sleep with a 15yr. old.
All judgements aside, there is only two countries in the world in which your "boyfriend" is not a criminal and I doubt that you live in either of them. It is a crime for a 19yr. old to have any kind of sexual relations with a 13, 14 or even 15 year old.
2007-12-18 14:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by No Drama 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
His "past"? If you're 15, you're still not legal in several states. When he's ready to seek out relationships with girls his own age, or at least wait until the younger ones are out of high school, then he'll have changed.
2007-12-18 14:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by MM 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh man, your boyfriend is interested in imature young girls. That's what they call a pedophile! Even if he does like you, he will always be interested in having sex with underage girls, and as you grow older will loose interest in you. In any case, trust your gut feeling. you are already wondering, which means you know there is something wrong there, and the fact that he tells you all about it just says that he thinks it's normal.
Dump the looser! You can do better.
2007-12-18 14:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
19 with a 15 year old...He should know better. He's always going to be a pervert, since he keeps his preferences around that age. He should be arrested and meet bubba. Unless even bubba doesn't wanna touch him.
2007-12-18 14:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you say you think it's weird that your boyfriend was sleeping with a 14 year old, and fingered a 13 year old... you're only 15 yourself!! he hasn't changed, he's taking a huuuuge advantage! stop seeing him....
not sure where you are, but it's statutory rape in britain too.
2007-12-18 14:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Katie K 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋