im a 12 year old boy my gf is also 12.I love her.Me and her are going to this after school thing tomarrow.the people that run it dont ever come into the game room its always dark.weve been going out for about a month now.i messed up once before.So shes exspecting me to kiss her tomarrow.shes a little taller than me.im so nervous.So Plz HELP!!! PLZ
2007-12-18 05:55:34 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boy... its little too early for you in this game...
But anyways.. just be yourself ,be polite and gentle...start with closed lips and slowly..then go with the momentum. but dont go too far until you are on your own.
2007-12-18 05:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by BabyG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, RELAX. I know it's hard... however, tension will come through when you kiss.
Second, don't feel like you have to do anything. Lame as it sounds, I refused to kiss anyone until I got to college, simply because I didn't like anyone until then. But when I found someone I really loved... well, I've been told I'm a natural. =)
Now, advice:
Soft lips are always nice. Drink lots of water to be hydrated, and use chapstick to not have chapped lips.
Keep a mint or gum nearby, but make sure whatever it is is gone. I like the pocket pack Listerine things because they dissolve quickly & are strong enough to get rid of ANY odor.
Wait for the right moment, but don't let that moment pass by when it comes.
Look into her eyes, and slowly close them as you let your lips meet. Nothing is creepier than opening your eyes to find someone starting intently into them.
Make sure to keep your teeth covered by your lips. Don't make your mouth like you're imitating grandma, but it's not fun if teeth hit during the kiss.
Don't rush for a french kiss, even if you think she wants that. Shoving your tongue into her mouth is not romantic.
Be gentle, take it slow, and remember - every couple is different. Enjoy it, and relish the fact you have this gorgeous girl. =)
2007-12-18 06:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay 12 year old. If you are going to be kissing your girlfriend TOMORROW then make sure you brush your teeth real good. Go to bed early and dont forget to pray. Dont be nervous- Just give her a little peck on the check and a nice hug around the neck.
2007-12-18 06:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by fresh one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 12 is a little too young to be kissing, IMO...however, if you insist upon kissing (it should be your decision as well...if it's her pressuring you...I tell ya...move on)...get in a situation where you're sitting with her or something, and kind of "lean" into her and if she starts leaning in as well, pucker up.
It's not the big deal people make it out to be. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 20 (dating kiss anyway...parent's always kissed my cheek), and he's now my husband of 13 years.
It's second nature...don't stew on it and 2nd nature should come through. :)
2007-12-18 05:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's been a beginner at some point. Just do you best. If she really likes you she won't let a bad kiss get in the way. You'll probably be just fine, it'll come naturally.
2007-12-18 06:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by -Tropical-babe- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the kiss a sweet and tender one.
Not one that will have her running to get some tissue to clean off all your saliva from her face.
Start out by kissing her slowly not too much passion.
TAKE THINGS SLOW REALLY SLOW, you guys are not even teenagers, yet!!!
Slow down a bit.
2007-12-18 05:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nikky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are YOU ready to kiss her? Because that’s just as important as her wanting to kiss you. Do what feels right. Don’t just kiss her then because she’s expecting it if your not ready. If you really want to, then go for it. Kissing someone dose not mean that it’s going to go any farther then that. And if it doesn’t go how you plan? Well, your young and in a few weeks you’ll laugh about it.
2007-12-18 06:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by jaded_shrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing comes naturally so it will be fine. when i had mine i didnt think i would be able 2 do it buts its very simple! jsut try to stay in her mouth. there is nothing worse then a guy who is a little too overexcited and slobbers all over your mouth. just dont do the water works effect good luck
2016-05-24 22:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it while you're sitting that's waaaay more romantic and intense
Brush your teeth and carry a mint but don't show it to her that is a definite turn-off
Don't use your tongue and don't squeeze your lips so much that she gets disturbet by that
Also don't try to do it when she's not looking or doesn't care;)
Hope i helped!
2007-12-18 06:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by stinkypinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. Most first kisses aren't the best first kisses.
Just go for it. Take a deep breath and just kiss her.
Then just go with what feels right :]
It'll all work out. Trust me :]
Good luck!
2007-12-18 05:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Hello there. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋