Women are always sticking me into the platonic friend zone, and I can't seem to escape it. I'm always getting the line, "I don't think of you THAT way." I have directly asked many of them why they feel as such, but they refuse to answer me. If they'd answer me, maybe I could avoid getting stuck in the zone when someone new comes along, but no one is willing to be honest or help me. How do I avoid getting stuck in the friend zone?
2007-12-18 05:48:04 · 8 answers · asked by Bob Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should be a bit more open on what you want in the begining. cause if you wait for them to figure it out, forget it.
2007-12-18 05:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by djchewy07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough Question. If you like a girl, ACT like you do. Take her on a date. Treat her special. Hmmm... Y'know there are books on this stuff. Basically, go above and beyond without smothering her. Do things that make her pay attention exclusively to you. But be yourself at the same time. Don't rush things, just let them fall into place. Do try harder.
2007-12-18 05:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by mr_knowitall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't avoid it, because you don't have anything to do with it. A woman knows within 10 seconds of seeing a guy whether she would ever be more than friends with him. Once she has decided, nothing will ever change her mind. To avoid The Friend Zone, you have to make a stunning first impression-from a distance-in those first few seconds. Be: tall, rich, well dressed, loaded with bling, and throw money around as if it were confetti. THAT will get you all the sex you want, with no fear of you ever being considered a friend. If you can't afford to do that, you are just S.O.L.
2007-12-18 06:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Answer one is right.
Get your hand down her knickers.
They've said it to me as well, " I'm pleased that you're there is a great one", it's like saying I have a boyfriend or I really fancy him but I'm glad you're there to pick me up in the event I have a knock back.
Don't hang out with girls like this.
Alternatively let them know that the price of you servitude is a hand job a day!
2007-12-18 05:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first u need to see how she acts around you because she might treat u like a friend because shes scared it would ruin yall's friendship. don't treat her like a friend, play around with her like a flirty playing if she don't like then she will tell u and then u wont half to be in the friend zone
2007-12-18 05:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by emily p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit being nice to them. treat them like crap, and pay no attention to them. You are too nice, and if you stay that way you won't get the girl you want. i am not saying be a total ***, but you can't be Mr. Nice Guy all of the time.
2007-12-18 05:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by RG_76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try flirting from day 1.
2007-12-18 05:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by 006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE A LOVER, not just a friend...do not ACT like a friend or that is all you will ever be--ACT like a lover who KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS--and then TAKE IT.
2007-12-18 05:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋