i block her number so i won't get any phine calls from her. i text her to tell her why i was upset. she text me back to tell me that ppl were not supposed to know what she was talking about unless i explained things to them. she thought it was funny to act that way. i was hoping for appology but nothing. she tried to blame me for something i did not do. i did not even know why she would do something like that. the funny things are i know stuff about her that are outrageous... do i do the same thing she did? she is not a little angel you know?
2007-12-18 05:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by singlegirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't do as she did...demonstrate for her the loyalty true friends are supposed to exhibit. (Why? Because..."two wrongs don't make a right...") Don't do anything that even remotely resembles payback because it's a bad idea in principle anyway, and could likely backfire on you and jeopardize your job. Just continue dealing with her from a "long handled spoon" until you've gotten the apology you seek and/or questions as to "why" have been answered to your satisfaction. Good luck.
2007-12-18 09:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you should reevaluate her as a friend. This is your opportunity to be the better person. Don't do the same things as she did because two wrongs still don't make a right. Just let her know that you choose to have people in your life that are true friends and that you don't have time or space for someone that would do that. She may come around, but don't forget totally what she did. A job is a job and people need to respect you having one and respect you in that job.
2007-12-18 05:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by #2 in the oven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a vengeful person, but maybe airing out her dirty laundry may help her learn how NOT funny it is. Sometimes people do not understand when things happen to other people. You may need to give her a taste of her own medicine. She will see how funny you think her business is.
2007-12-18 05:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell ya i would do the same thing to her
maybe she will be less likly to say anything about you in the future
2007-12-18 05:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she ain't your friend
2007-12-18 05:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by robert s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋