im 13 and this guy has been flirting with me he said i was cool today and at break he put his hands on my hips form behind nd went "ohh" or something like that. i don't know how to flirt back without making it to obviouse to my mates. ive never been on a date either or kissed so any information on that to would be much appriciated
2007-12-18 05:27:51 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt mean sex! its jst a cuddle!
2007-12-18 05:33:01 · update #1
YOU'RE 13!!!! You have five more years before you can legally do anything other than kiss anyway. You only have 5 more years to complain and whine about little insignificant things before you have to pay bills and write 50 page essays and WORK and worry about what's happening in the world. You only have 5 more years of being self-centered. Why are you in such a rush?
2007-12-18 05:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Camilla B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no proper way to flirting. Many people do it differently. Some girls giggle and put their hand on their arm when a guy makes a joke. To me that shows the guy too much that you're into them. Start by texting or IM each other a lot. That way when you talk in person it'll be more comfortable.
Don't plan on when and where you will kiss. It's better when it's unexpected and not planned out.
Going on dates? Just relax and be yourself. Start with a movie other than dinner. That way you will also become more comfortable with this guy.
Good Luck! :)
2007-12-18 05:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what... I'm 15 going on 16, and don't even bother at 13. Trust me, it's not worth it. Sure, make friends with him... but no more... and certainly never tell a guy that you 'love' him at that age. You will be thankful later in life =)
Smiling, laughing at his jokes, general hugging, eye contact and friendly chats always go far (whether flirting or just being friends).
Best of luck.... and don't grow up too quick! Princess Lola x
2007-12-18 06:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to flirt for a young girl like yourself is to use your eyes! You can tell a lot from a persons eyes. Don't start walking funny so that you bum moves around more or anything like that, it would be to obvious and show that you are trying to hard. Remember EYES and you wont go wrong. One last thing, don't loose any sleep over how to kiss cos it will be perfect when it happens. See ya and good luck! ;-)
2007-12-18 05:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by jonathan s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you want to make it obvious to your friends? Maybe they would be impressed... Even if they teased you, you'd know it was because they were impressed and maybe a bit jealous. But a good way to flirt without being obvious is eye contact. Definitely let him catch you looking him over. Make eye contact quickly, like just a glance, and then smile and look away, or even giggle a little and then resume doing whatever it was you were doing (reading your book or whatever).
2007-12-18 05:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mink M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Aw I don't see anything wrong with this. Your starting to explore and that's good because it means that you are starting to grow up.
Don't try to grow up to fast though because you would regret it when your older, just have fun, flirt with him, go on a date be is friend there is nothing wrong with that.
Now how to flirt with him,
Try flicking your hair, or making eye contact with him and doing a little smile then looking away that should work
2007-12-18 05:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sarah, while this may not be the answer that you want, I would advise that you tell this person to leave you alone. Give yourself some more time to get a better perspective before you even think of dating. Please do not let yourself fall into the trap of giving s*x for love, it just doesn't work. If a boy really loves you, then he will respect you, and not push for s*x.
2007-12-18 05:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just laugh at his jokes when he looks at u smile when your talking to em like do something with your hair start rubbing it or something he seems nice so i give it a go but get to no em first wait for a few weeks until u no if he is the guy u want to kiss for the first time dont rush into it get back to me to see how it goes
2007-12-18 05:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by marie l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way to young to have any guys hands on your hips or anywhere else...wait a while...its worth it...and when I say a while I mean at least 3 to 4 years
2007-12-18 05:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt with him to Im only 13 and I had a girlfriend. Always make the first move on kissing him.
2007-12-18 05:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋