Why do women always say they wont do that when they're married...as if it degrading or something? What is so wrong or bad about it unless they are into other chicks, then I can understand. But other than that, I just don't get it.
2007-12-18 05:13:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not saying I don't get a BJ now....my concern is that after I get married, the lucky lady will tell me "oh, I don't do that anymore, I'm married now" And yes, I have heard that it happens!
2007-12-18 05:28:48 · update #1
Well, I disagree with all the women who don't want to do their part in pleasing their man. How can we expect our man to please us and do naughty things if we don't wan to return the favor ; )
2007-12-18 05:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nikky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless women have some dick sucking fetish, the majority of us don't consider it our favorite thing. I did it once and I was super grossed out. It felt like someone was using my mouth as a bathroom. It DID feel degrading. Mostly because I thought it's what I was supposed to do as a "sexual" woman. Turns out it's the last ******* thing I ever wanna do. Some women like it. some don't. People have their own personal preferences, likes and dislikes. what's so wrong with that?
2014-01-09 16:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women have a very bad gag reflex but I think part of it that a majority of men to not landscape and that is a HUGE problem. Shave, wax, do something to keep it smooth and clean. You will be surprised how many more BJ's you'll get if you maintain the yard.
2007-12-18 05:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Birdie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me it was the exact opposite. As a single woman dating, I was opposed to them because I felt it was degrading. Now that I am married and love my husband very much, I get pleasure in giving him pleasure.
2007-12-18 05:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should we do that if the guy won't return the favor? It's not degrading unless it's the whole "the check is in the mail" story and we end up with a bad taste in our mouths.
2007-12-18 05:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Halo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
some women think that there is nothing wrong with "bjs" but other women find them to be disgusting, everyone has their own opinion when it comes to that. it doesnt matter if your married or not some women find them to be turn offs when a guy asks for one.
2007-12-18 05:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am married and have been for 8 years and my hubby gets them regularly! I try to spice it up and offer them to him when he is watching TV or anytime I am feeling a little frisky! I don't find it wrong or degrading in the least. I love to be able to pleasure my man!
2007-12-18 05:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by I hang with the BIG DOGS 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Married or not, oral is a great way to share intimacy with someone you care about. It's a personal choice, the couple should talk about it. Me? Single or married, oral is on my list of things to do for my guy.
2007-12-18 05:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women dig it, some don't...it has nothing to do with being married.
Just like anything else in the world, not all people like the same thing...most guys don't like doing it so why are all women expected to enjoy it? Hmmmm????
2007-12-18 05:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You must be talking to the wrong women. I haven't met too many that have any issue with it especially after you go down on them first.
2007-12-18 05:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i don't think chicks think it a bad thing just well maybe some chicks just don't like doing it i guess but if there married i have no idea why they wouldn't do it.
2007-12-18 05:19:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋