iam having this problem with the girl i love
she is really really rich and iam in a not bad money shape but the problem is i cant afford all of our going outs together the thing that makes her really really sad
and she says that am special for her thats why she doesnt wanna feel sorry for me
so plz help what should i do??
2007-12-18 03:08:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what i think here is,she love u even thought ur financial is weak..never mind just chill..don't look down on your self..just bring her where you feel comfortable..and up to ur budget.any girl who loves serious on you,she will be happy wherever u bring her...
2007-12-18 03:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say how long your relationship has been going on ... After awhile, you share the cost of doing things, Just like in a marriage. Have her share the cost. If she is in the relationship for you it won't be a problem, If not, she will drop you and move on.. Give it a try and then you will know
2007-12-18 11:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit yourself down, take out a note pad and pen, start writing as many things as you can think of that is romantic, fun, inexpensive, and thoughtful!! You don't need money to woo a Lady!! Well, maybe just a little! Any way, you can do it, it sounds like she likes you, not money!! Good Luck to you two, I sure would like to know all about your dates!!
2007-12-18 11:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by meloni o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey my advice to you is to just love her and be there for her. If u wanna take her to a nice place then just save some money up and make her have a nice day that she never had befor. If she say that you are the best for her then dont worry about it casue she probably doesnt love you for your money she loves you for you.
2007-12-18 11:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by SONDRA232 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to do things on a budget. Have her over and cook dinner for her instead of going out. Rent a movie or watch TV instead of going to a play or to a movie. If she loves you, money doesn't matter anyway!
Cheers
2007-12-18 11:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes her really really sad that you can't pay for all the "going out" that she wants to do? Well, that certainly tells you where her priorities are in life. It also shows you just how shallow she is if something as insignificant as going out is what makes her "really really sad."
2007-12-18 11:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going to pricey dinners, you guys should have
a romantic night in. Its cheaper & way more romantic than some expensive dinner at some restaurant.
2007-12-18 11:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
expensive places aren't good. u can bring her to your favorite spot in the whole world(which doesnt cost a lot) and have a picnic or something. or go to an amusement park?
2007-12-18 11:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by kevin v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If shes rich she can pay for herself sometimes an don't blow all your hard worked money on her .. she may run you dry of money then up and leave you .. stop that
2007-12-18 11:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like you for who you are and only is interested in material and financial things then you should dump her and move on.
2007-12-18 11:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by mel_adramatic1981 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋