what you do if you were gettin ready to move, and you have enough ppl round to help and they dont, and they r trying to make u pack their stuff to, what would you do and how would you feel, because that is what is happenin in my life right now!
2007-12-18 02:58:09 · 8 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I will just pack my bag and forget theirs. If people would give me such an attitude!
Concentrate only on oyur belongings thats all and do things that will please you
2007-12-18 03:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule 1: People will not always help you, even if asked, just because they are around. That being said, I would pack my things and let them fend for themselves. i learned the hard way that even those closest to you aren't always dependable. Take care of you first with or without the help of others.
2007-12-18 11:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Test 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grinned and beared it! Really! Been there, did that!
I've often in the past been asked to help others move. SO many times, I'd get there with my pickup and low and behold........they not only wanted my pickup, they expected me to pack their BOXES too! HOW RUDE!!
When I've asked for help, I always had the boxes packed, stacked and ready to go.
IF your needing to get out, grin and bear it this time. You may think differently next time. Live and learn! It won't hurt to express your feelings either they deserve to hear it!!!
2007-12-18 11:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, like you, would feel very frustrated and used. I suggest you sit every body down and have a discussion about responsibility and pulling your own weight.
Also with something as complicated and overwhelming as moving, being very organized and having structure really helps. Having a list, assigning jobs and tasks and delegating really help.
Good Luck!
2007-12-18 11:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on yourself! You are moving, it is your stuff, suck it up and get it done and don't rely on other people. They can be responsible for their own stuff. Stop stressing out about it and just pack up your stuff!
2007-12-18 11:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people don't want to help you move, then hire a moving company. Its your stuff, no one else is responsible for it.
2007-12-18 11:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell them to pack their own **** and if they leave it in my way, I'll walk on it on my way out.
2007-12-18 11:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just leave their stuff there and tell them to do it. your not a slave or anything. and u should feel triumphant.
2007-12-18 11:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by kevin v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋