is this domestic violence?

Question

i just do not know what to do -i am being bullied by my uncle and mother -emotionally bullied- in my house ; they telling everybody in my neighbourhood that i am s and and ick and its not true and they nick pick at everything - they are 68 and 69 years respectively - i feel so emabarrased as house is like an open book to everybody - i do not know who to speak to as i do not know who to trust as they may punish me more - i do not feel at ease around them since i do not know how they will lash out at me. i have looked 4 reasons why but i cant think , they also say that i am gay too behind my back too.

I hate them both , i really do -sometimes i have thought about ending my life since i do not know how to cope.

if i say anything to my uncle , my mother always makes it into a big drama , like for instance slamming the doors which i find annoying - she says to him to keep on slamming the doors if he wants - its like he has something over her.

please advise.

Answer 1

I do not know that would be considered domestic violence. Is the home yours or one of theirs... whose name is on the deed, who pays the rent/mortgage? Are you an adult or still under 18... there are so many factors that could help your situation. Prehaps if you own the house, it might hurt, but tell them to find another place to live. If you are an adult they should in no way be punishing you for anything. Prehaps you could move out unless the house is yours?

To end your life would solve absolutely nothing. There is no reason for suicidal thinking... but since you have thought about it, prehaps a bit of counseling would help. If you can't afford it, there are always programs that you may qualify for.

I really don't know what to say without knowing whether you are or aren't an adult and whose name the house is in. It sounds likr though tat prehaps they get a kick out of tormenting you into madness... don't play their game. As for your uncle having something over your mom, who can say for sure but the two of them? it is better prehaps to distance yourself from them if you are able to.

Good luck and sorry I couldn't be of more help.

Answer 2

It's domestic violence.

Clear this up with everyone, that your mother and uncle are possibly mentally ill, and that whatev they are saying about you are NADA true.. If you can get out and get out fast. Try talking to your mother in a calm, calm, calm calm manner. Seems like from the info you've given your uncle isn't a good target. Why the heck should you stand on this cracking iceburg? Do you know any mental reason those two are doing this? If your over eighteen or old enough by law to move out GO BOY GO BOY GOOO!!!!!

Answer 3

If they are that old, you are an adult. You cannot be emotionally bullied unless you allow it. No one cares if you are gay or not, that's your business. Move or if its your house, then move them out. Keep them at a distance or just cut them out of your life. People like this are toxic and you don't have any control over what they do, but you can control your own behavior.

Answer 4

I wish you'd of mentioned how old you are!

if your 18 or older get the hell out. Get a job and live in your own place. IF your not, go talk to your school councelors first and tell them the situation, they may beable to direct you better, knnowing your living circumstances.

Answer 5

well first off how old are you?? you dont have to deal with that. if you are too young to be on your own then find something that makes you happy and do that like find a really good book or hobbie and stay away from them and maybe that will haelp sorry that your in that situatuion its not fair to you.

Answer 6

Yes this is domestic violence. Because this goes on in the home, it is a form of abuse. Abuse can be: mental, emotional, physical, neglect, and verbal.

Answer 7

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