I've been in a sweet relationship for past one year. My friend is really a very nice guy. In April he went to the other city for work. Since then, though he called,but quite occasionally, most of the time I did.( I know he is quite busy and lazy too.) His text msgs were also reduced in number. But still whenevr we talked I find him in the same love as he was earlier. I dont know why he doesnt text or call me much now, which he used to do earlier. Few days back, I texted him that there's no need to call me because he doesn't have time for me. Since then he is not replying my messages and not even picking his phone. He texted me last week that he loves me and askd me not to leave him. I know he loves me a lot and I also love him. Dont know what to do. Is he upset because of me? or Is he taking it as an opportunity to ditch me? This is my first love and I cant live without him. Should I get myself busy and not think about him? or Give him some time ? Will he talk to me ever?
2007-12-18 02:41:40 · 2 answers · asked by Qurious Lawyer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am a big believer that it doesn't take alot of effort to send a text or an email at least. if someone can not even be bothered to do that, then it just shows you that they can't really be bothered about you. get out and find someone who will show you the respect that you deserve
2007-12-18 02:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Loli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check. Get a clue, if someone cares about you, they will find the time to text, call, write, visit in person. Write him off and move on to someone that will have a real relationship. Forget what he says, look at what he does.
2007-12-18 02:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋