I've been dating a 30 yr old girl now for close to 4 mos. I am generally a very open person and share feelings easily. I told her that I was happy to meet her and that she gave us a chance. She basically said you don't need to say thank you. I told her also that I think she is different and that she can share her feelings with me to which she replied in text: I know, lol
What does this mean? I told her I need someone who wants to share feelings and talk openly but she just says that she will but I need to be more patient. What do I do?
2007-12-18 01:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by modusoperandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, hold are you?
If she's thirty and still single, she's very likely been hurt before, and probably badly enough that it gives her trust issues with men. When you ask her what she's feeling and she tells you to be more patient, she IS telling you what she's feeling. You are pressuring her and if you're not careful you will scare her away. Just take it slow and give her the time she needs to become comfortable enough with you to let you in. Force the issue and you can start shopping for a new girl.
2007-12-18 01:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say trust her and be patient but obviously it's hard to judge just from what you say there. With a lot of girls, and guys I suppose talking about your feelings will obviously benefit you both in the relationship, but, if the other person is not ready to talk, AT THE TIME, it could end up ruining things between you. I'd say she does appreciate that she can talk to you and share her feelings but doesn't need to at the minute. I would say chill with the emotional talk and stuff but don't clam up. You could be scaring her away. But that's just my advice you'll obviously have a better understanding of the situation
2007-12-18 01:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead the same way as you are doing now.She won't be a bad partner for sharing your and hers thoughts together.She is 30 !!! That's a nice age of a woman to be friendly with if you are quite mature as well.Keep up the tempo going .
God Bless
2007-12-18 01:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One time me date girl and I though she different but she turn out to be no different. Whe she say how much you charge to jump in a man hole i say i charge you just the cover charge.
but another time me meet a girl who i think is different (she eat banana with her armpit) i realize we just alike. we both rolled a 100 sided dungeons and dragon dice and we both get the number 77.
2007-12-18 01:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK SHE STRUGGLES TO SHARE HER FEELINGS AND SOMEONE WHO CAN DO IT MAY SCARE HER AND I THINK YOU SHOULD NOT PUSH HER YOU MAY FIND THAT IF YOU BACK OFF SHE WILL POUR HER OUT TO YOU JUST REMEMBER YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW WHAT SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH BUT IF SHE KNOWS SHE CAN TRUST YOU THEN SHE WILL TALK TO YOU X
2007-12-18 01:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by AMBER B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TAKE IT EASY SHE MAY HAV BEEN HURT B4 SPEAKIN FROM EXPERIENCE SHE MAY FIND IT HARD 2 LET U IN DONT TAKE IT 2 HEART XXXXX
2007-12-18 01:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means keep ur secrets and keep ur mouth shut!
2007-12-18 01:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by ahenkanus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋