I think women are beautiful and I like to look at them. However, I think some women are uncomfortable with being looked at. If you don't want attention why all the cleavage, push up bras, tight pants, make-up, and such? Please don't say it is just to be pretty. DaVinci didn't paint and then stick his works in the closet. No one spends time and energy to look good for no reason.
2007-12-18 01:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
That's women for you, isn't it? They put everything on display, and, if you dare to look at it, they treat you like a pervert.
No wonder us men are confused about what women want!
2007-12-18 01:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is your reason for staring? Do you do it for your own pleasure? If so, that's kinda weird.
Honestly, I don't think that women dress this way for men (all the time). I don't dress immodestly anymore because the Lord convicted me that I need to cover up, but I understand why women do it. They feel that it makes them more attractive and it makes them feel good because of the attention it brings. I'm not saying it's right, but I think that they don't know how it affects men. An honest, good man would be made very uncomfortable by talking to a woman with too much cleavage showing. Even a little bit of cleavage is a bad thing, in my opinion.
I'm sorry you're having this problem. But I think women do it more to get attention from attractive men than anything else.
2007-12-18 10:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, people spend time on their looks in order to appear pleasing to the opposite sex, but first and foremost it is for one's own pleasure. However, you do have the rare exceptions. For instance, the women that go overboard with the cleavage (which I myself as a woman cannot help staring at) and get angry at you for "staring" as you call it may only be offended by the fact that their attempts were so obvious. However, leering at someone is a lot different from appreciating their beauty, or the time they spend on looking good; it is, in fact, creepy and unsettling to the woman, and all women can tell the difference. In conclusion, if women are upset at you for "staring" at them, you're most likely being creepy. So stop it.
2007-12-18 09:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by marielpantera 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think it's disrespectful, so much as rude.
If you like the way we look well enough to stare, then you should like the way we look well enough to walk over and introduce yourself.
Secondly, not every woman dresses up to impress someone else. There are days I like to look my best just to give myself a confidence boost.
2007-12-18 09:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by christiekpoe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course if you stare with disrespect then it is automatically disrespect.........but then again , it depends where you staring at to? But I have to agree with you too, the eyes can be sinners really, the eyes without the expression of speech may speak with lust or disrespect...so right, if they dress in a disrespect way then they deserve to be treated that way.......after all, a woman can be beautiful even if she is covered up and from head to toes..........her face matters anyway and no matter what a woman wears , with her shapy body, she will look astounding..........!!!
2007-12-18 09:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's ridiculous excuse for you not being able to control yourself.
Oh and btw it's leering and that's a form of sexual harassment. I f a woman is returning your stares and seems like she enjoys it then do it but if she looks uncomfortable then just STOP!
2007-12-18 09:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually woman are uncomfortable when an ugly guy is staring at them
2007-12-18 12:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staring and looking aren't the same thing. If you were in any way attractive you would understand.
2007-12-18 10:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋