How do I get him to grovel?
My ex is an @sshole. He lied to me and still does - even telling me he is still in love with me, while telling his ex gf the same crap.
Since I have to see him all day long, what can I do to make him miserable?
Please spare me with the "be a bigger person, show him how happy you are" because I already did that. I just want him to FOREVER regret his shady coward p*ssy choices.
He is an idiot. Help me please
2007-12-18 01:14:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's what you do. Since you have to see him all day, get plenty of guys to come visit you, and even kiss a few of them. This shouldn't be hard considering how lovely you are. Jealousy is a *****. Every time he tells you he still loves you, shut him down. Tell him if he wants to make up for it, he'll have to do something for you. Send him on some bull **** errands, and even tell him he got the wrong item a few times just to make him go back again. I think you know where I'm going with this.
2007-12-18 01:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by xmusic_manx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/djSqQ
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 19:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How To Grovel
2017-01-15 13:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her
2016-04-29 09:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to show him that he no longer controls how you feel about him. Change your look, hair, clothes,etc... find yourself a new hot man (not boy) and have him meet you at work for LUNCH. Maybe the idiot will get the picture & stay away. Or you can simply tell him to get a life and move on because you have. He may end up groevling, but I wouldn't count on that.
2007-12-18 01:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by Blu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge. Ignore him, find a better guy, and have a fabulous life. If you see him, kill him with kindness.
Your way just puts yourself at his level at best. If that's what you want, it's your choice. Seems like a lousy way to live a life, though.
2007-12-18 01:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must move on people like that will not be affected by anything you do. If you hold no to this he will control you and your life. The best medicine is to find someone that makes you happy so you can move on and leave that looser behind.
2007-12-18 01:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman has ever made me grovel.
2007-12-18 01:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by brian777999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you to be the bigger person but move on already. The fact that you are still talking to your ex is your problem, not his. He knows he has you and the more you talk to and deal with him the greater control he has over you. That's why they call it an EX.
2007-12-18 01:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say the best revenge is living well.
Get yourself a boyfriend upgrade and leave this jerk in the rear view mirror.
2007-12-18 01:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Justin T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋