i had sex with my boyfriend the other day and he asked if he could *** on my tummy so i said okay whatever.. after he did he was kinda disappointed and he said "i cummed on you and you were just like, whatever.."
what the hell did he want from me?? am i supposed to be all excited that im a sticky mess now? i mean i don't mind but come on
2007-12-14 17:05:29 · 11 answers · asked by stacey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks you guys made me feel a lot better!!
and even though i didn't really enjoy it, the next time i let him *** on me again i faked liking it and i rubbed it in (even if i felt all porno status). he was so excited! hahaha he said, "babe, you put a smile on my face, you really do"
2007-12-18 15:27:38 · update #1
Yeah, tell him he's been watching too much porn. Women dont actually get any sexual thrill out of it beyond seeing the guy's excitement. If the woman gets off on it, she's faking it.
Tell him you can fake it if he wants but it wont be real :) Or he can try write his name...like its snow!
EDIT: It rubs the lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again...
2007-12-14 17:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by MonkeyMama 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol well by saying whatever didnt seem like you were to excited, even though he did getg to c*m by saying whatever probably took the excitement out of it. It seems like you didnt want him to even do it. I think what he wanted was any sign that you enjoyed it. Guys love to please thier women, so if you showed that you liked it, it would have been more pleasurable for him. My suggestion is never do something you dont want to do. Suggest other options or just think before you speak.
2007-12-15 01:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gmarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the "whatever" may have disappointed him thinking you weren't into it and thats fine...You learn by trial and error how to please each other. Had you faked it, he would keep doing it. Girls really don't like getting dirty--no matter what mess he's throwing on your belly hahahaha. If it turns HIM on though...you might compromise. he may bedoing stuff for you that he really doesn't enjoy much...
2007-12-15 01:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not into it, and that you're not a porn star. He's clearly got a warped view of reality. I don't know any women who really like that, they might tolerate it to please the guy but it's more appropriate in cheap skin flicks than in a real couples bedroom. Buy some crotchless panties to redeem yourself lol.
2007-12-15 01:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope it was protected.... haha
yeah
in my opinion, cumming on a girls stomach isn't really my kind of thing.. i would do it, but not my sort of thing
he probably wanted you to do some kind of sexual act or something...
It may be exciting for him but for you...
i wouldn't know
i'm not a girl. haha
i hope i helped a little.... haha
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2007-12-15 01:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's part of life you have plenty more chances to decide where you want it? Good Luck.
2007-12-15 01:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has been watching to much porn....I luv your down to earth question , you are great don't ever stop being the way you are....
2007-12-15 01:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess some people think other people might be turned on by that but i dont think its a big deal u werent turned on
2007-12-15 01:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u ever watch porno, he prolly wanted you to rub it and lick off your fingers n taste it ....hahahahaha
2007-12-15 01:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with ya.
2007-12-15 01:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋