when ever i walk into my house you instantly feel this heavy wieght put on u!! so iM guessing its a negative energy....
i live with my parents & i think the negative energy comes from the arguing that we do with each other....my moms a skitzofrinic bipolar so my dad is always fighting with her & he gets fustrated because he cant do anything about my mom so he turns around & fights with me.
i ignore all the fighting that goes in my house so it doesnt stress me out but theres still this negative energy...it makes me really tired too like all i want to do when iM home is be lazy & sleep!
how do i get rid of it???
2007-12-04 15:55:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
& please dont advise me to have everybody sit down & talk about the problems because if you never delt with a skitzofrinic bipolar before then iM telling you theres no way you can talk to one about their problem!!! & i dont want to put my mom on meds bc when she isnt flipping shes really sweet & loving & i dont want to change her!!
2007-12-04 15:55:57 · update #1
iM 18 & yea iM saving up to move out but my parents really need me to help them with rent so i cant really move out till i help them on their feet
& my dad fights with my mom because HELL my mom will get on ur nerves even tho she has a illness its like she has to fight with you for attention or something
& if we go to counsoling my mom will FLIPPPPP...when ever we talk to her about her she goes CRAZY...so we rather have her just a little crazy than full blown crazy!
& my parents are deaf also so its really hard to find a counsoler for deaf people
2007-12-04 16:14:46 · update #2
make sure you have good lighting, no clutter, and if it's possible I would air the house out and clean. Just light some candles one day when you are alone, put on some good, upbeat tunes, open all the windows and dust/clean. I always feel like it's a new home when I've accomplished this. Good luck to all of you, really!
2007-12-04 16:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by dontknow 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Make a place just for yourself in the house. Keep it calm there. Let that peace protect you and radiate out into your home. Meditate or pray, whatever you do. Soft, up beat music will help. Vanilla and lavender scents have been known to create a calming feeling. Keep the area free from clutter and if it is appropriate, open the window briefly each day. Move out if you can. Get outside help and stage an intervention if possible.
Blessings,
2007-12-04 18:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A very intelligent question you have asked. It is not that if you all sat together and discuss about the problem and it gets resolves. Again it would lit up some dayor rather. The only solution to this problem is .. you.. as a matured one should emphazize the need and urgency for the positives to flow into home. It would definitely not fetch any good results with your dad but speak to your mom. Make her understand and though it would be a difficult part, it would be the neat solution. After all, world wars have been resolved discussing in tables.
2007-12-04 16:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by JANARVIHARAN 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
OMG. I'm serious about this; that sounds exactly like my family. If your mom also has ADD, then we have the same family. But, what I do, is I just take more positive influences. Like, listening to more positive music, etc. Then, it's like a ripple affect. Your parents will see you being happy, then they'll be in a good mood. Just keep in mind one thing; make sure to let them how you feel. I know, you asked not to be told to talk it out with them, but honestly, I did it, and it took a little while, but they started to make little changes, which eventually turned into bigger changes, so on, so on.
2007-12-04 16:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Whoa.
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You will need the eye of a frog, one bats wing, a salamander tail....
Nah, I'm kidding. The truth of the matter is that there is no quick fix. Your parents and you should all go see a counsellor. Having lived with people who have had schizophrenia, bipolar and clinical depression I can only say - Praise psychiatric medicine! Your mother needs medication. Your father needs to relax. You need to spend less time at home. Perhaps you should try and take a load off your family - do some chores etc..
2007-12-04 15:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by mam2121 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You really need to talk to one of your parents about this. My father is bipolar, and I have experienced that tension in the household during the high points of the manic phases. If your mother is schizophrenic, she could be a danger to you as well as your father. She needs psychiatric help, especially if this occurs often. For you, I would suggest meditating. It is an art that will allow you to dispel the negative energy that seems to be affecting your daily life. In any case, please talk to someone. One of my cousins suffers from schizophrenia and despite taking medication, he still sometimes gets to the point where he has to be hospitalized. If your mother's condition is left untreated, it could be worse. I wish you the best of luck.. don't hesitate to contact me if you seek further advice or counsel.
2007-12-04 16:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by nyx コト 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you like the sweet and loving part of your Mom, then get her on the meds, so that side can stay present longer and more often, eventually for good.
As for the rest of it, if you aren't going to help her then there is not much that can be done about the "negative energy". It will continue to build.
Try meditation and opening a window.
2007-12-04 16:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by wife2denizmoi 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Oh my darling, I feel bad for you, has she been diognosed? If she has this problem and it has been decided by the proper Specialist that it is bipolar, you must understand that the medicine would even things out so that she is able to function normally on a regular basis, and not have the bad days. I would have loved for you to have given your age, because if you are a teen, which I am assuming you are, you will be able to better deal with this as you get older, you need someone you can confide in sweetheart, like a paster of a church or and Aunt or just a friend. Please get help for your mom, so you can have a peaceful life, and help her to have one to. Good luck and God bless you.
2007-12-04 16:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by kellie 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
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2007-12-04 17:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by Human Being Human 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do I get rid of the negative energy in my house......I send him to the store! LOL
I'm sorry for your situation...I don't know what to advise. Good luck sweetie!
2007-12-04 16:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋