I used to think not, because my ex broke up with me to focus on himself and I blamed myself so much for so long. And he lied he wanted a new girl. Well now Ive used this time to work on my college classes, go out with my friends more and save money by working. I recently realized how much stronger I am since before or when I was with him. I am happier. He made me miserable. I dont think Ive ever been more satisfried with my life.
2007-12-04 15:10:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes... definitely... we may not understand when things happen to us but everything happens for a certain reason... whatever that reason is... what we should remember that one thing leads to another...
well... i'm happy to know that you have realized your blessings after you gone over a recent heartache... and yes being single has lots of benefits... it lessens the stress level... lolz...
well since you're happier... it's a solid proof that you are better off without him...
2007-12-04 15:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by amchoney143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all are making decision based on our life experience.
If you had a loving family and parents that taught you right
from wrong.This is very important for what mate we end up
with.We marry what's familiar to our upbringing,family unit.
Work on yourself will always make you stronger and give you insight into what you really want out of life,keep going
strong.Learn and earn and be independent.
2007-12-04 23:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent choice! This situation is so incredibly common, it's unbelievable. There is never any reason to blame yourself for anyone elses actions. He lost out, but now you've found a better path while he probably misses you. Good Luck!
2007-12-04 23:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are ABsolutey RIGHT :-)
I beleive everything does happen fora reason and I am the same way my husband left me forselfish reasons so he wouldn't feel guilty about lieing or cheating anymore!!
NowI am so much better and I wont even take his *** back!
He tried toget me to after he lost everything and now he comes crawling back to me ...I dont thinkso!!!
Good for you! I amhappy that you came to that realization :-)
Good lUck!
2007-12-04 23:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by dawnO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right! Things do happen for a reason. I've seen it repeatedly in my own life and the lives of my friends.
2007-12-04 23:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you go out with someone who wants only to focus on himself and makes u miserable?
2007-12-04 23:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by midge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe so and i think that i have to believe it, because when things get back i just think, this is all happening for a reason and it will all be ok, bt yeah i beleive it and ur situation is a great proof of that!
2007-12-04 23:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good that you feel that way, you should feel that way. you don't need him, you can do it anything if you put you mind into it. you need to be around positive people, they will guide you and help you to succeed in your life. things comes and goes, some for the better, that's life, it's ok. just don't let the people that love, care, and support you be dissappointed in you. always put yourself first.
2007-12-04 23:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really good dont be sad about it, some people always are better off by themselves and when the situation is over that's such a great thing though wow that's really good
2007-12-04 23:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by crecychris90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe everything happens for a reason, but I'm glad you wound up content.
2007-12-04 23:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋