i think that i need to have sex.?

Question

well, i tried to safe it for marriage, but i don't think that i can wait that long.
my sexual atraction is getting really hight seen i was 18.
is that happen to you too??

Answer 1

I understand all the reasons for waiting, but it is the biggest mistake of your life. If you are thinking about marrying a certain person and not sleeping with them first that is a huge mistake.

Sex and Money break up marriages. One can be bad and you may get by. Two and you are screwed.

Answer 2

First off, make sure it is a mutual agreement and that you are not breaking any laws of the land. But also know that there could be a lot of repercussions in the future you do not currently imagine could happen. Perhaps that safe-sex, wasn't all that safe, and then you might be a dad, or even AIDS. Think first and then ask. Ask a trusted friend or mentor that would listen to you and be discreete about the conversation. And yes, for me some call me a horny pimp, but I am still waiting for marriage. Good luck, you make the decisions in life that effect the life you live - good or bad.

Answer 3

Remember there are a bunch of bad disease out there.
Are you ready to have children,or perhaps marry someone you had sex with.Go to the showers.Take a cold one.
Pray for the strength to do the next right thing.Be prepared
for anything.I knew a guy at 18,that had a fling,she had a child,
he was sued for child support and he began to pay for the next 18 years.Be smart and always think about the consequence of your actions.

Answer 4

Yep your normal dont panic, but if you really want to, you can save yourself for marriage, it has been done before by so many, it depends how strong your conviction is.If you feel that worried about it talk to someone who you trust who understands your viewpoint....if you are religious do you really want to spoil your good habits..there are practical lessons you can learn to help you stay in this frame of mind for as long as possible...you just need to talk to the right person or people....after all why would you want to become like everyone else..its so good to hear of young people who want to uphold the respectable side of morals and marriage.You should be very proud of yourself for even hanging on as long as you have...and not following your peers like a sheep.

Answer 5

I think it happens to everyone. Everyone gets aroused every so often and sometimes, especially for someone who was waiting until marriage. If you are that aroused, then you are probably seeking some kind of relief. If you want to wait until marriage because of a religious belief, try masturbation.

Answer 6

sex is a natural phenomena but dont u feel that u should at least wait to be sure about it considering the pros and cons of being only physically involved without emotion

Answer 7

Sounds normal

Answer 8

i tried that too...even made a promise to myself that i wouldnt have sex til i was married...but hormones and biology overruled my morals...hopefully u can be a little more steadfast than i was and keep it in ur pants, jus think about the risks involved

Answer 9

yeah but its not worth it to blow it now...just hang tough!!
dont hang out alone with the opposite sex...YOU can do it..I mean you dont need to do it! JUST WAIT! You will be better off waiting like my friend did...she was 30!!
:-) OK?
Be good now ya hear!

Answer 10

Save it for marriage. It's much better. Otherwise, you'll just be using another human being, and that's terrible.