well OK for starters I'm a guy and I'm very shy until recently when i confessed to the girl of my dreams just how much i like her only to be shot down with i just want to be friends and i dint have those kind of feelings for you i guess what I'm trying to say is guys are just as scarred to talk to a girl as a girl is to talk to a guy because of rejection when i like a gir i show her by talking o her making her feel special making little comments on how she looks and tease her just a little bit or constantly trying to touch her in little ways like lay with her hair or tickle her or suprise her from behind and give her a hug or give her my hoodie if shes cold sharemy food or what ever i have with her
2007-12-04 21:38:46
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answered by fxracer1189 1
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i will answer this question from better than one measurement: a million. Whats the evidence that she change into no longer virgin, change into it sturdy. some circumstances the cultural technique of understanding no matter if the lady change right into a virgin or no longer after the first nighttime, are not any more scientificlly acurate 2. Did the lady admit to him. 3. Divorce isn't beloved by ability of Allah. change into sex the in basic terms reason this couple were given married, if he suggested some thing islamically sturdy in this lady he can concentration on that. 4. If the lady admits to no longer being virgin, and he or she has repented, then its upto the guy to forgive her. 5. change into she confronted as to why she did not tell him before marraige. 6. very last yet no longer the least : Sharia`h smart, virginity isn't a call for or a difficulty of marriage, Prophet Muhammad`s first spouse change into no longer a virgin. So shariah smart this is allowed. yet when the lady is of a nasty personality, or change into of a nasty personality then it needs to be established .... cos if u examine surah al noor (the incident of how the rumours were spread about hadhrat Aisha, nd how Allah ordered human beings to worry Allah even as blaming righteous women of zina) you'll comprehend that this isn't a worry-free problem. on the end its somewhat as a lot because the boy. Your advice to him should be : Divorce is disliked in islam. Be frightened of God even as associating zina to her. Virginity isn't a difficulty for marriage. Allah does encourage adult men to settle on sturdy and righteous different halves. Make a balanced and basically decision.
2016-10-25 11:35:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Im the shy type of guy, always have been. I usually just compliment a lot. But if thats not working then I take a risk and let it be known. Im not a big risk taker but it has worked before.
2007-12-04 14:59:41
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answered by Anonymous
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I have found that if I am truely interested in a girl then I find myself talking to them a lot and finding ways to be with them all the time. Phone calls, e-mails, and personal contact as well. I show girls that I am interested in them by showing interest and doing things together.
2007-12-04 14:58:55
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answered by nsadew 2
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I am shy do I usually ask her questions about anything that I can think of that she might be interested in.
2007-12-04 14:59:39
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answered by ttt517 1
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Guys are actually very simple.
If you are female, we are interested in you.
If you are female and talk to us, we are very interested in you.
If you are female and talk to us and smile, then we will probably want to either take you home for the night, or introduce you to our mother. either way, yes we like you.
2007-12-04 14:59:46
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answered by wildwillyinva 4
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all i have is a smile and a cheery word ---- it does not work and i have a real problem approaching ladies face to face ---- have fun
2007-12-04 14:57:56
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answered by Waterdragon 7
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