There's this guy i'm confused about. Last year, when we went to the same school, was when i met him and this thing went on for a while. During the end of that year he Almost asked me out? lol. yeah. He kind of got through half his sentence, then my friend pulled me away, and he got shy. Well, after that it was more of like, we knew there was something, but it wasn't out in the open. It was like we were both waiting for that something to happen. I try to forget him. It's like i started to like him because he liked me. But now it always feels like there's this thing between us and there always will be. I guess he's a good guy, but i wonder if im getting attached to nothing. Sometimes I think now we're just normal friends, and he's moved on but also feels like we still have this 'thing' going on.
2007-12-04 14:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*and yeah, there's also my friend. He started to get to know her, and now i'm sure he has at least some feelings for her. Maybe for the both of us. I know that she is a reaally cool person, but she's doesnt wanna go out with anyone. A lot of guys are interested, but she's not. lol. Can't really imagine him Not liking her. I guess there are just some girls that you absolutely can't compete with. So i should just move on, right? &sorry for my limited vocab. Ty(:
2007-12-04 14:16:49 · update #1
Guys usually don't feel that thing unless they are given a reason to think about you. Let him know that you are interested in him and see what happens.
2007-12-04 14:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you only like him because he likes you then forget it...go by your standards and don't settle for less. It seems like he tried to be open with his feelings but when he got interrupted, he just said forget it, i had my chance. I think that if you find it deep down in your heart that you like this guy and want to get to know him better, then take the initiative and speak to him about. But by any means necessary, don't try and talk to him out of pity or because you don't want to be alone.
2007-12-04 22:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by afro_rica_n_dian girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...I'm assuming you're female, and you seem to have followed the stereotype and overcomplicated the situation. If he worked up the nerve to "almost" ask you out, and you were pulled away before he could follow through, of course it'd be hard for him to try and approach you again.
If there's still something there, spend more time with him, and eventually tell him you like him if you do. There's no sense in wasting time quibbling over the "does he like me" factor! :)
2007-12-04 22:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by mercury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should just get together one time alone and talk about it. You've got nothing to lose and a man to gain!!! give it a try
2007-12-04 22:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by NayNay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ideas just stop thinking about him
Get some balls and ask him out yourself
then you'll know for-sure=]
2007-12-05 12:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by viciii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a fresh start. Is the best solution.
2007-12-04 22:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him like that and what to see where you two can go then just ask him out. Why not?
2007-12-04 22:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you clear the air. and challenge him. and see how he feels. you never know. get it out of your system once and for all. and spend the rest of your life. thinking maybe.
2007-12-04 22:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋